Bonding before birth

Bonding with you baby while she is in the womb is not only an exhilarating experience but also really important for your baby’s development.

Studies have shown that babies in the womb start to react to sound at around 24 weeks, so from three months onwards is a great time to interact with your baby.

Your baby’s favorite sound is your voice. She hears it when you speak and feels the vibrations of your voice through your body, so talk to her calmly all the time.

Reassure her that she’s loved, tell her your thoughts in a natural, honest way and try to be as positive as possible. Sit in a comfy chair and gently sing to your baby, or play your favorite soothing music. Once your baby is born she’ll feel a sense of calm if you sit in the same chair listening to the same music.

Encourage your partner and any other children you have to talk and sing to your bump as well, as your baby will start to find those voices familiar and soothing too.

You'll be surprised at how intuitive you'll become as far as your baby’s wants and needs are concerned when she’s born. You and she have lived side by side for nine months and even without thinking you’re probably aware of when she likes to sleep, what makes her active (certain foods) and what she doesn't like (the midwife prodding your stomach!). Your baby is learning from you while inside the uterus, but you’re also learning to respond to your baby.

Once your baby is in the outside world, she'll mostly have eyes for mom – studies show that newborns stare at their mothers’ faces longer than anyone else's. Once she is born the bonding process doesn't stop but intensifies as you both grow and learn from each other.

The information in this feature is intended for educational purposes only. If you have any concerns about your health, the health of your child or the health of someone you know, please consult with a doctor or other healthcare professional.