Month Twenty-Seven

This month your toddler is so busy learning new skills and tearing about it can be hard to get him to sit still to eat, read a story or have some quiet time.

The fact is that most toddlers at this age have a very low attention span so getting them to sit still for long stretches of time is difficult. If he gets restless half way through his meal, try moving the highchair to a different location, possibly where he can see out into the yard so there is something to occupy him. If he still won’t stay in one place, let him go and give him a healthy snack like a banana in an hour to make up for any food he has missed. Read mealtimes and toddlers for more tips.

If he won’t sit still for story time, try adding props, such as finger puppets, to the story; or use his toys as characters in the story. See fostering a love of reading.

This month you might notice that your toddler becomes completely engrossed in the task he is doing and gets cranky if you stop him halfway through when it’s time to go out. This is partly because they have little or no discipline at this age and partly because they have no concept of time. The best thing you can do is give your toddler a warning that you have to go out – it’s no good saying “in half an hour we are going to grandma’s” because, again, he has no concept of time. It’s better to say, “we have to clear up your toys very soon because we’re going out, so you can play for a little bit longer and then we must go”. If he still gets upset, suggest that he brings his toys to grandma’s.

The gurgle article on helping your child to overcome frustration should help in these times. You can also watch our video guide for techniques on dealing with tantrums.

Have you brushed up your first aid knowledge? With a boisterous toddler racing around the house you’ll have already seen your fair share of tumbles, bumps and booboos. Is your first aid kit up to date and stocked with kid first aid essentials? See our feature on first aid kit. 

The information in this feature is intended for educational purposes only. If you have any concerns about your health, the health of your child or the health of someone you know, please consult with a doctor or other healthcare professional.

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