Establishing a bedtime routine
The
way to improve the chances of your baby sleeping well through the night is to
establish a good bedtime routine for him from very early on.
Babies, like all
children, need to know their boundaries – it helps them to feel secure. Even a
very young baby will benefit from having a (reasonably) fixed schedule of
events at bedtime, as it’ll teach him to relax and wind down in anticipation of
sleep.
Start
the process of settling your baby down for the night at a similar time each
evening. For example, at 6pm you could prepare a bath for him. Bathing your infant on
a daily basis will relax him and prepare him for bed and it’s also a good
opportunity for some one-on-one bonding, especially for dad. Ensure that the
room you’ll be using is warm enough and wrap him up in a soft, warm towel after
his bath. Dry him carefully and put on a fresh diaper – you could also use this
time to give him a massage.
Put
on his sleeper and make sure his room isn’t too hot or too cold, as either
could hamper his efforts to sleep – around
65-68 degrees is ideal.
Dim the lights slightly and check you won’t be disturbed by too much noise from
anywhere in the house. All things in moderation though, even peace and quiet –
it can be a real hindrance if your baby needs complete silence to sleep,
especially during the daytime, and some moms swear by a healthy dose of
background noise so their baby will learn to sleep without being disturbed by
activity elsewhere in the house.
Now,
you can give your baby his last feed of the evening. Often babies will fall
asleep when they have this feed but in order not to build up an association
between the two things, rouse him slightly before you lay him down in his crib
– otherwise, he could wake up and cry for the missing comfort of his breast or
bottle. His learning how to settle is also the key to him being able to do it
without your comfort if he wakes in the night.
At
this stage, most experts believe a crib is the best place for your baby to
sleep. Instances of crib death have been linked to babies
being placed on their stomach to sleep even though this was the advice given to
new moms in the not so distant past, so make sure your baby is lying on his
back with his feet at the foot of the crib and his blankets tucked under his
arms so he can’t wriggle under them. Better yet, use a baby sleeping bag and do
without blankets altogether.
Try
to be flexible about the routine – otherwise you might limit your own life
unnecessarily. If you plan on visiting friends or having a social life that
takes place without a late afternoon curfew, try to accept that sometimes the
bedtime ritual won’t be able to take place in exactly the same way. Your baby won’t
suffer if you both have the odd night off.
Summary of bedtime routine:
1. Pick
a time to start the wind-down before bed. Make sure the room your baby is going
to sleep in is warm and that the lights are dimmed.
2. Run
your baby a bath – the warm water will help to soothe him.
3. Wrap
him up a soft towel and lay him on a changing mat or bed in the room he’ll be
sleeping in. Dry him thoroughly and put on a fresh diaper.
4. Give
him a massage before you dress him for bed. Don’t forget to talk to him and
tell him what you’re doing – even young babies like to hear their parents
talking to them. They might not understand the words, but they understand the
tone and are comforted by your voice.
5. Give
him his final feed and don’t forget to wind him.
6. Finally,
lay him on his back in his crib while he’s still awake.
Do
have a look at our video guide to establishing a bedtime routine to see these tips put into
action.
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