The real cost of IVF: How much would you pay to be a mother?

The real cost of IVF: How much would you pay to be a mother?

A new study has revealed that women are prepared to spend up to £50,000 to realise their dreams of motherhood.

The study, carried out by Red magazine as part of their Annual National Fertility Report, revealed that most women would take on extra work, sell possessions and sacrifice pensions to fund fertility treatment if they had difficulty conceiving. And they would be willing to spend an average of £15,000 on IVF – with one in ten prepared to shell out as much as £50,000. One in five would even consider moving house if it meant better fertility treatment on the NHS, as there is perceived to be a difference in NHS IVF provision, depending on where you live.

More than 90 per cent said they would cut back on holidays, eating out, clothes and beauty products to pay for treatment. And it is the grandparents-to-be who they are increasingly turning to for financial help, with 30 per cent of women having treatments asking their parents or other family members for money, up from 14 per cent last year.

The desire to become a mother would even drive women to seek treatment abroad: three quarters of the women surveyed think IVF in the UK is too expensive, and 30 per cent said they would have their treatment abroad, where it is considerably cheaper, if it meant they could be a mother.

Nearly 45,000 cycles of IVF are performed in Britain each year. In the private sector, each one can cost more than £5,000.

Sam Baker, editor-in-chief of Red, said: 'Our report shows that women are prepared to make huge financial sacrifices as they do whatever it takes to conceive.'

IVF basically stands for 'in vitro' which means 'in glass' and essentially means a man's sperm is added to his partner's eggs in a laboratory so that fertilisation happens in controlled conditions outside of the body. IVF is an option for many couples who are finding it difficult to conceive naturally. The fertilised embryos are then put back into the woman's uterus where the pregnancy will hopefully continue. However, there are a series of complex steps, which have to be carried out in order for IVF to be successful. The success rate relies on the age of the woman, and the age of the eggs involved in the process.

What would you sacrifice to be a mother? Have you ever had IVF, and how did you find the experience? We’d love to hear your stories.

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By zephine5 1 years ago Newbie
Speaking as someone on the IVF waiting list (only 1 'free go' in this area), I agree that the waiting is upsetting and the private costs are very high. The problem is that IVF isn't a life saving treatment and there isn't enough money to give everyone free treatment. If IVF doesn't work for us, we will pay for private treatment but obviously we can't afford limitless cycles. I work for the NHS and the financial pressures are huge. I think under the present circumstances, anyone who gets any free cycles is very lucky.
i understand times are hard but this is ppl dreams we are talking bout n i'm still wating i haven't had any try on the nhs as yet
By carolj1973 1 years ago
Speaking as someone on the IVF waiting list (only 1 'free go' in this area), I agree that the waiting is upsetting and the private costs are very high. The problem is that IVF isn't a life saving treatment and there isn't enough money to give everyone free treatment. If IVF doesn't work for us, we will pay for private treatment but obviously we can't afford limitless cycles. I work for the NHS and the financial pressures are huge. I think under the present circumstances, anyone who gets any free cycles is very lucky.
By zephine5 1 years ago Newbie
i think they need to overhall this part of the nsh i think they don't seem that willin 2 help woman 2 get want they dream of
By lesley127 1 years ago
Other than the cost it is unfair that if you or your partner already have a child (even if child from previous relationship) you can not get ivf or ai on nhs and to go private is well to expensive. I do agree there should be a cut off age for treatment due to higher risk factors in the older woman but i think maybe there should be more help and advice out there for them on how they go about getting there dream to happen.
By zephine5 1 years ago Newbie
thats not the reason hun, its just they have to have a cut off point and they have made 40 as it , someone in their 20s has a small risk of downs but it does increase the older u r
man it the NHS for you alway saving money but what can we do?
By anncoates 1 years ago Newbie ChatPRO News Like
it's hard no metter where you coming from, but i think they don't give older laides IVF coz of the risk of downs maybe?
thats not the reason hun, its just they have to have a cut off point and they have made 40 as it , someone in their 20s has a small risk of downs but it does increase the older u r
By zephine5 1 years ago Newbie
hi as well as ivf being way too high. i think its terrible that anyone over 40 is not eligable for nhs, i feel i am being punished for finding the right man later in life and think individual circumstances shud be considered.it saddens me to think ladies in my position who one day ivf may be their only chance of having a baby, will not have the option of ivf, i really think its wrong, and for those who are younger after the free goes the price is far too high .
it's hard no metter where you coming from, but i think they don't give older laides IVF coz of the risk of downs maybe?
By anncoates 1 years ago Newbie ChatPRO News Like
hi as well as ivf being way too high. i think its terrible that anyone over 40 is not eligable for nhs, i feel i am being punished for finding the right man later in life and think individual circumstances shud be considered.it saddens me to think ladies in my position who one day ivf may be their only chance of having a baby, will not have the option of ivf, i really think its wrong, and for those who are younger after the free goes the price is far too high .
By zephine5 1 years ago Newbie
After 2 failed attemts on the nhs we've now been advised to use donor eggs, partly because this is our last free go. If we use our own eggs privately it will cost about £5,000 but using a donor privately it could cost between £10-12,000 which is money I don't have.
i know the feeling it like where is that moey goning to come from,
By zephine5 1 years ago Newbie
thank you, and depenning on where you live you sometimes only get one chance of IVF on the nhs ...every heartbreaking
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