Is it better to have a working mum?

Is it better to have a working mum?

Mums who have to leave business meetings to make it to the school play in time, will welcome research that shows there are no significant detrimental effects on a child’s social or emotional development if their mothers work during their early years.

Any mums who juggle work and parenting will sigh with relief at a new study, funded by the Economic and Social Research Council (ECRC) on maternal employment and child socio-emotional behaviour in the UK.

According to the study, the ideal home scenario for children was where both parents lived in the home and both were in paid employment, however the impact of this arrangement partly depended on the father’s working arrangement.

The study also looked at the data form the UK Millenium Cohort Study, the researchers discovered that the relationship between behavioural difficulties and employment of the mother was stronger for girls than boys. It also found that:

- Boys in house holds where the mother was the breadwinner, displayed more difficulties at age five than boys living with two working parents. The same didn’t apply to girls.

- It also found that girls in traditional households where the father was the breadwinner were more likely to have difficulties at age five than girls living in dual-earner households.

Dr Anne McMunn, the principal researcher in this study said: “Mothers who work are more likely to have higher educational qualifications, live in a higher income household, and have a lower likelihood of being depressed than mothers who are not in paid work. These factors explain the higher levels of behavioural difficulties for boys of non-working mothers, but the same was not true for girls."

"Some studies have suggested that whether or not mothers work in the first year of a child's life can be particularly important for later outcomes. In this study we did not see any evidence for a longer-term detrimental influence on child behaviour of mothers working during the child's first year of life," states Dr Anne McMunn.

Previous research has shown that children brought up in single-mother households or households where neither parent works were more likely to have challenging behaviour at age five than in households where both parents work.

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By loubealice 9 months ago Newbie Lucky Chat
My LO is better to have a sane mum and wonderful playtime at nursery rather than staying at home with me cleaning and doing chores!!!

I love my LO and she loves going to nursery and when I pick her up she is so pleased to come home, I feel we have a good balance. Plus mummy can afford holidays and fun things!
By LucyRuth 9 months ago Newbie Lucky Superstar
Also when you have a newborn to deal with as well even if no one speaks to you it at least occupies the toddler while you have a sit down!!
By mamaoftwo 9 months ago Newbie Lucky Superstar
Yeah when at home I always have an afternoon and morning activity, but work two days at month, so think I'll have to think of things to full five days at somepoint! I tried a few of the toddler groups, but didn't find any I was a big fan of so will look again if needed! X
i did find sum toddler groups bit clicky but once i been a few times it was fine x
By cheery_chick 9 months ago Newbie Lucky ChatPRO News Like
Mine didn't go to playgroup til age 2.5yrs but we still found plenty to do-toddler groups, soft play, toy library ,parent and toddler swimming-we do something every day cos they do need stimulation and trips out but reckon even with all this I spend a lot less than putting them in a nursery!
Yeah when at home I always have an afternoon and morning activity, but work two days at month, so think I'll have to think of things to full five days at somepoint! I tried a few of the toddler groups, but didn't find any I was a big fan of so will look again if needed! X
By cheery_chick 9 months ago Newbie Lucky ChatPRO News Like
Mine didn't go to playgroup til age 2.5yrs but we still found plenty to do-toddler groups, soft play, toy library ,parent and toddler swimming-we do something every day cos they do need stimulation and trips out but reckon even with all this I spend a lot less than putting them in a nursery!
Yeah when at home I always have an afternoon and morning activity, but work two days at month, so think I'll have to think of things to full five days at somepoint! I tried a few of the toddler groups, but didn't find any I was a big fan of so will look again if needed! X
By cheery_chick 9 months ago Newbie Lucky ChatPRO News Like
Mine didn't go to playgroup til age 2.5yrs but we still found plenty to do-toddler groups, soft play, toy library ,parent and toddler swimming-we do something every day cos they do need stimulation and trips out but reckon even with all this I spend a lot less than putting them in a nursery!
Yeah when at home I always have an afternoon and morning activity, but work two days at month, so think I'll have to think of things to full five days at somepoint! I tried a few of the toddler groups, but didn't find any I was a big fan of so will look again if needed! X
By LucyRuth 9 months ago Newbie Lucky Superstar
How does your boy get on now he's not at nursery? Just because when/ if I have another one I'd take my lo out of nursery as I'll be on reduced pay etc and of course it makes sense to have her at home if I am lol! Just wondering if he gets more bored at home cos on the days when lo's not at nursery she gets a bit more bored lol! x
Mine didn't go to playgroup til age 2.5yrs but we still found plenty to do-toddler groups, soft play, toy library ,parent and toddler swimming-we do something every day cos they do need stimulation and trips out but reckon even with all this I spend a lot less than putting them in a nursery!
By mamaoftwo 9 months ago Newbie Lucky Superstar
I just wish they'd promote positive sides of both and leave us to make our own minds up-I was lucky to have my mum at home with me for 3 yrs after my birth and wanted same for my kids-I've been lucky to be able to do that and can't see how this can possibly have disadvantaged my children-they all attended playgroup for 2.5hrs a few days a week without me from age 2.5yrs and benefitted from this too.
totally agree with u lucyruth. my mum stopped at home til my youngest sibling was in school age then worked evenings so dad could watch us ,this is wot i do also and my lo's benefit from toddler groups ect and i dont miss the milestones x
By LukesMummy2009 9 months ago Newbie Lucky ChatPRO News Like
How does your boy get on now he's not at nursery? Just because when/ if I have another one I'd take my lo out of nursery as I'll be on reduced pay etc and of course it makes sense to have her at home if I am lol! Just wondering if he gets more bored at home cos on the days when lo's not at nursery she gets a bit more bored lol! x
Im keeping Luke in nursery whilst Im on Mat leave, because I'll be returning in 10 months I wanted to keep him into his routine and its nice that he'll get to be with his friends all day doing fun stuff and I'll have one on one time with baby. I had baby on Sunday so Iv kept him off all this week so we can adjust as our new family and to be honest he is bored! He asked for one of his friends yesterday. He is wanting to help loads with the baby but he's also playing up a little bit I think out of boredom. It doesnt help that we've not left the house all week, his Dad took him to a play gym yesterday to have some one on one time with him but I think he's looking forward to going nursery on Monday, Iv told him I will get a photo printed of him and his brother that he can take in to show all his friends x
By cheery_chick 9 months ago Newbie Lucky ChatPRO News Like
I work part time and really enjoy my job (im one of the lucky ones!) I love socialising and my son loves nursery so much. He has come on leaps and bounds since being there and is constantly having new experiances. Iv just had baby number 2 so am on mat leave at the moment but my baby boy will be joining his big brother when I return in April. I wouldnt like to work full time and find working 4 days a week a happy medium, I work Mon, Tues,Thurs and Fri so make the most of my wednesdays taking him to play gyms etc and then we have weekends with his Daddy too x
How does your boy get on now he's not at nursery? Just because when/ if I have another one I'd take my lo out of nursery as I'll be on reduced pay etc and of course it makes sense to have her at home if I am lol! Just wondering if he gets more bored at home cos on the days when lo's not at nursery she gets a bit more bored lol! x
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