Trying to move on but its hard :(

Thanks, and the same goes for you. I'll be ok, just been an emotional roller coaster the last few months. Gonna take time out to heal.
good luck with the birth..add me, id love to chat x

fill free to add me if u want a chat i know wat ur going throw totally. My babys due netime and the bf i was really in love with was a alcholic and 1day never came bk.I decided 2keep the baby and ive been suffering from deprestion on and of its really hard.Being pregnant is emotional enother and it stops u from moving on so ive found it really hard.

Refering 2 your problem i would say go out with mates and make yourself look nice so u fill good abat yourself and try to keep yourself buisy.If ur feeling that low and finding fings hard perhaps see your doctor and get tablets or councilling.

Just an update. Ive ended the relationship and spent the entire afternoon and evening in tears. God knows if its the hormones or guilt..i really dont know. I feel its going to be a tough few months.

I dont love my b/f and he knows it. Today i can barely stand to be touched by him. I think i need to be on my own with the kids. Your right-my emotions are everywhere and its going to take along time to get over my ex.
The other problem is that my b/f is an alcoholic and has given it up for me and the kids..he hasnt touched a drink since saturday and has joined AA. If i finish things it'll destroy him.
Its all such a mess.

Im not gona pretend I know what your going through, but if you need support in anyway, everyone is here. I dont want to patronise, but it sounds as if you already know being with this new guy is not going to work, until you have got rid of your feelings for your ex partner.

Maybe a break away, time to yourself. It is going to be even worse if you are pregnant as your emotions are going to be everywhere, so please think about you your baby and your children before anyone else!

i kind of went through something like that but no kids involved.we wer together for 5 years and it ended as he was sleeping with my neice!! it is hard and sometimes i do find it hard now but it will get better

Hi. I'm feeling really low at the moment. I ended a 2 year relationship just 16 weeks ago. It was a dreadul relationship, he was a slight control freak and ive been told it was an emotionaly abusive relationship. As soon as i ended it, i met up with an old school friend and after sleeping with him once-fell pregnant. Since then me and the babies dad have got together and he loves me and my kids to bits. He really is a nice guy. But i am so hurt. Ive tried so hard to be strong for my kids and get us all through the terrible ending me and my ex had, now the children have settled..im suffering. I really loved him and it hurts so much! I cant talk about this to anyone i know as they all hate him and would think im mad! But i miss him and dont know how to get through it. Any ideas?