Hi, Thanks for your message...... I hope you can get through this tough time too. I am here....

hello hun, think i know what your going through my ex partner was like that with my first daughter and now im expecting a second he tell me that he's met and fallen in love with another woman and left me and our daughter to go and play happy families with them! so i think mayb you should sit down and tell him how you feel hun just think your relationship isnt as bad as others! ie me! lol

Hi, I cant seem to fathom why my partner is so disinterested, unsupportive, unsympathetic, inconsiderate, unexcited about our baby due on may 25th. I keep trying to rationalise that maybe he feels out of the game as he is not going through the physical experience but when I try to include him and say how much I would like to feel he was "there for us" I hit a brick wall. even yesterday we went for our booking scan........ I felt so relieved that all seems to be going well, it's my 2nd child and his 1st, but i got the impression he could have cared less..... I only asked him along so he may feel this is real and seeing the little shape on the screen might make him a bit more enthusiastic but he only seemed keen to get away in case he was spotted by his work colleagues from the next building as he had taken the afternoon off not saying the genuine reason why! (which makes me think, why are you not shouting it from the rooftops?) We were not seeing each other for long before I fell pregnant so it is putting pressure on us to be a couple but to be honest every day i wonder if it would be better to say goodbye and do it on my own like i managed to do last time? God, why do I keep picking these selfish neanderthals??!! Anyone been there bought the t-shirt?