My baby boy hasn't even arrived yet and I'm finding that my boyfriend kinda needs to grow up, his mum inteferes in our lives constantly!! He's still livin at home, he pays £200 a month to live there, which i think is a bit extortionate personally, considerin he's never there. His mum takes his bank card off him on the day he gets paid so she can go and get his money out of the bank herself even though she knows he is capable of doin it himself!! She keeps tryin to get me to move away from my family and move to their city (me and my boyfriend live about an hour away from each other), I'm only 17 and keep explainin that i don't want to be movin away from my mum and everyone else in my family because they're going to be my biggest help, it's like his mum wants my son all to herself, even though she has dozens of other grandsons and this is my mum's 1st grandchild which makes him even more special to my mum. I just feel like screamin half the time!! His mum keeps sayin 'you can't stay with mummy forever' like she's talking down to me! My boyfriend is 21 surely he should be moving out of home if i'm too old to stay with my mum!!
Sorry bout my rant but i just don't know what to do!!
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Have you spoken to your bf about his mum yet? I wouldn't move away from your mum. You will probably find that it will be her that gives you the most support after the birth. We bought our house 2 years ago with the idea that we would do it up & move closer to my mum by the time we were going to start a family. But I fell pregnant before we could do that so I have to put up with living 1/2 hour away x
due 7th feb
yeah every1 keeps sayin hes gonna be late xx
hey sweets hows things?? x
due 7th feb
yeah every1 keeps sayin hes gonna be late xx
When is your due date? First babies tend to be late I think. I loved being pregnant but now I have Bradley I cant really remember it lol
all that sounds pretty straight forward then lol, ill av any pain relief, just give it me as i want it! lol
rrr chick i really think you need to explain to your partner how you feel. i had a very interfering very soon to be mother in law. since we found out i am pregnant she was even worse than shes ever been. weve lived together now for 3 years and she used to call everytime she heard a siren. baring in mind she lives on a main road lol it gets abit annoying at 3 am. lol. anyway since ive been pregnant she took it upon herself to order full nursery equipment complete with full wardrobe of clothes for when the babies with her, weve both agreed this wont be very offen as shes very immature and can be very irresponsible. my fella questioned this and in particular the reason for a second travel system as weve brought a brand new one and her reason was to walk to our house(about a 15min drive) with the empty pram and take the baby away when ever she feels need to. it really hurt me and i felt sick anyone would take my baby away. so my fella flipped cus he was really freaked out. she was really sulky and did the whole tears and tantrems bit and since shes just been quiet. her hubby(my fellas step dad) is just as immature. he threw a strop in toys r us the other day because wait for it..... couldnt have a toy. i so no how you feel as nothin i can do is good enough. shes so hurtful and says the nastiest things to me but i just take it cus i dont wnna hurt her back. but she doesnt see this. speak to your man hun.... xxxx
thank god my in-laws live 300 miles away! only downside to that is that when they do visit I'm stuck with them for least a fortnight. a lot of murderous thoughts can go through a person's mind in that time. Grrrr! x x
basically if you havent had pregnancy problems it should be up to you how you want to have your baby. I wanted a water birth but that went out the window as I had to be induced and had a few problems whilst in labour. If you've had antenatal classes you will have seen a birth pool and all the beds and everything they use or might need to use. They'll probably just ask if you want anything in particular for your birth and talk to you about pain releif. sounds scarier than it is lol i'm petrified of needles but ended up needing loads so gas and air came in handy for that!
not done my birth plan yet, got to go and see the midwife on friday bout it. What kinda stuff do they ask you? xx
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