Whats wrong with me?

Hi, last month was my 1st month trying for a baby. I did have a period but it only lasted for 1 day. It is the right time of the month to try again but yesterday my boyfriend asked me to take a test as he was convinced i was pregnant. My nipples are sore (not my boobs), i feel so heavy i struggle to get up, i have put weight on, had a bad back (low down) for a week and my stomach feels like i have mild period pains. The test was negative. I am sitting in work at the moment and i just burst into tears for absolutely no reason at all. Does anyone have any ideas what could be wrong? x
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sarahlowe
Reply sarahlowe 9 months ago
Maybe i am imagining these symptoms lol. I dont mind if i am not pregnant because i am loving the trying part. One of my favourite smells are matches when they get blown out and recently i have been lighting candles in the lounge in the evening. The smell of the burnt out match for me at the moment is disgusting, now that is strange for me! i noticed that about 3 nights ago. The past 2 weeks i have also been falling asleep at my desk in work at about 1pm every day. Ahh girls, this is sooo confusing....... alot of signs but i dont think i am and im getting negative test results!! grrrr!!x
Well you never know, have you tryed the First Responce test as u can test 5 days b4 your missed period? every womans body is different and so the surges are different also some wemon have been pregant a couple of months only to find a doctors test proved possitive and found out they were a few months already gone, there are lots of strange factors out there. You wount be imagining the symptoms hun just sometimes our bodys can play them without being pregnant, and its hard because when you are trying for a baby its hard to tell if the signs are for real or not, and you can endup becoming bald lol with all the hair tearing, i was and started to become a little obsessed so ive been on a break, going back to trying next month, i havnt been trying long like and not really doing it propaly eather so thats why im not preggers yet. id wait a few days maybe a week do another test or go to your docs they will deff give you a 100% result
Bobbysgirl
Reply Bobbysgirl 9 months ago
AF is due on the 19th, 2 weeks tomorrow and it cant come quick enough. Me and my boyfriend are very excited that we are trying but he thinks it will happen right away while i keep thinking it could take years to happen. I have tried to diet that past 3 weeks and i have put on quite a few pounds and along with the other symptons my boyfriend is convinced that we already are. When are you due? x
the 18th September it feels like ages away, i am really hoping he/she arrives 9 days early though it would be so cool to be born on 09/09/09 at least there is no chance we will forget the birthday, as long as little bobblet is happy and healthy i don't mind if he/she is two weeks late (i bet i will feel different when the time comes lol) fingers crossed for you sweetie and keeep me posted:)
Rich1jack
Reply Rich1jack 9 months ago
hey there, since ttc also i found my body playing alot of tricks on me and as alot of laides on here told me when i first became a member was to keep an open mind, trying for a baby can take up to months if not years so you have to be patient and there is lucky ones that fall straight away and our bodys can play signs of early pregnancy but indeed they can be very similer if not the exact as af symptoms. I never got any symptoms that my AF was going to arrive i just came on without warning, now ive started to try for a baby my body plays a full circut of things such as: heavy sore darkening tingling boobs, nausea, tiredness inc 3 naps a day, really vainy boobs, needing a wee alot, ive even gone off my fav foods,and unusual bleeds, basicly ive shown evey sign but they wernt anything to do with me being pregnant 2 months ago i was even 2 weeks late which was very odd for my cycle lol so it just goes to show how our bodys can work, i used to get so excited thinking i was and it can be so upsetting after you have has all these symptoms and your period comes, so now i keep an open mind and just hope that one of these months my body gets it right hehe and my symptoms are for real. It can take the healthest of couples to be trying for months and years so my fingers are crossed you get a BFP :D but if not just relax and be patient and dont read into your body to much, and dont worry.
Keep us updated and my fingers are crossed for your BFP :D All the best hunni
Maybe i am imagining these symptoms lol. I dont mind if i am not pregnant because i am loving the trying part. One of my favourite smells are matches when they get blown out and recently i have been lighting candles in the lounge in the evening. The smell of the burnt out match for me at the moment is disgusting, now that is strange for me! i noticed that about 3 nights ago. The past 2 weeks i have also been falling asleep at my desk in work at about 1pm every day. Ahh girls, this is sooo confusing....... alot of signs but i dont think i am and im getting negative test results!! grrrr!!x
Rich1jack
Reply Rich1jack 9 months ago
yeah it's my first, it's funny i only took the test to prove to my Boyfriend that i wasn't crazy, i just had a gut feeling that i was pregnant. when is AF due? i hope you don't have to wait too long.x
AF is due on the 19th, 2 weeks tomorrow and it cant come quick enough. Me and my boyfriend are very excited that we are trying but he thinks it will happen right away while i keep thinking it could take years to happen. I have tried to diet that past 3 weeks and i have put on quite a few pounds and along with the other symptons my boyfriend is convinced that we already are. When are you due? x
sarahlowe
Reply sarahlowe 9 months ago
I.m really sorry for the spelling mistakes there. GOOD LUCK HUN BFP ALL THE WAY :D
sarahlowe
Reply sarahlowe 9 months ago
hey there, since ttc also i found my body playing alot of tricks on me and as alot of laides on here told me when i first became a member was to keep an open mind, trying for a baby can take up to months if not years so you have to be patient and there is lucky ones that fall straight away and our bodys can play signs of early pregnancy but indeed they can be very similer if not the exact as af symptoms. I never got any symptoms that my AF was going to arrive i just came on without warning, now ive started to try for a baby my body plays a full circut of things such as: heavy sore darkening tingling boobs, nausea, tiredness inc 3 naps a day, really vainy boobs, needing a wee alot, ive even gone off my fav foods,and unusual bleeds, basicly ive shown evey sign but they wernt anything to do with me being pregnant 2 months ago i was even 2 weeks late which was very odd for my cycle lol so it just goes to show how our bodys can work, i used to get so excited thinking i was and it can be so upsetting after you have has all these symptoms and your period comes, so now i keep an open mind and just hope that one of these months my body gets it right hehe and my symptoms are for real. It can take the healthest of couples to be trying for months and years so my fingers are crossed you get a BFP :D but if not just relax and be patient and dont read into your body to much, and dont worry.
Keep us updated and my fingers are crossed for your BFP :D All the best hunni
Bobbysgirl
Reply Bobbysgirl 9 months ago
Awh congratulations!! I cant wait to be pregnant. My son is 10 this year so i am ready to start again lol. I feel like i may be pregnant but there again maybe i feel like that because i really want to be. Im going to try not to test again before my next period is due. The waiting is horrible, wish i was due now so i would know lol. Is it your 1st baby? x
yeah it's my first, it's funny i only took the test to prove to my Boyfriend that i wasn't crazy, i just had a gut feeling that i was pregnant. when is AF due? i hope you don't have to wait too long.x
Rich1jack
Reply Rich1jack 9 months ago
yeah the cramps are normal, i am eight weeks on Friday and still get them, it is just your uterus stretching, i am a size ten too and a classic pear shape so i normally have a really flat tummy, in the first few weeks i couldn't get my trousers done up i was so bloated, it has eased now and due to morning sickness they are now too big.lol. i am so tired at the moment i am like a walking zombie and i'm always yawning, my boss has started to notice hanges so i just told him that i think i'm a bit aneamic again he seems to buy it, i'm just waiting till my twelve week scan so i can scream it from the rooftops.lol
Awh congratulations!! I cant wait to be pregnant. My son is 10 this year so i am ready to start again lol. I feel like i may be pregnant but there again maybe i feel like that because i really want to be. Im going to try not to test again before my next period is due. The waiting is horrible, wish i was due now so i would know lol. Is it your 1st baby? x
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