Everybody is entitled to their opinion however I would have to disagree with the statement 'what the hell is a beautiful girl doing with a guy like that'. At the end of the day, this is the guy I have chosen to spend the rest of my life with. I think he is gorgeous and this 'issue' is his only flaw, granted a very upsetting one for me. Away from this he is a wonderful person who picked me up when I was in a really bad place and turned my life around. It was never him that sapped my confidence in the first place, he found me that way many years ago and believe me I am a more balanced person now so you can imagine what the previous person was like.
He was most upset when I told him and now feels a complete failure at our marriage. We have talked it through now and look forward to some fun making up!
I didnt mean he was minging or anything..just that you need to have more faith in yourself with your looks. Most people if they are honest would look at your profile and think the same as me.
Glad you talked it though and seem to be sorting it out :) xx
Thanks. I did have counselling a few years back for this issue. I just need to give myself a break. What is with the blonde thing and men anyway???
God only knows. He loves Emma Bunton. Just makes me laugh cause he has no chance!!! lol I know my issues aren't exactly the same but before I lost a bit of weight I was so self concious and didn't want to go near my partner and even now when he says he loves my wobbly belly I don't believe it. I'm not fat but still have plenty round the middle. You just have to try to believe what he's saying.
Glad you're back on track. Men are funny things. My partner seems to be completley obsessed with slim blondes (I'm brunette and not v slim). I'm just within the healthy range for my weight and a size 12. I have the opposite problem to you. I just have to look at food and put weight on!! I've had two children and have to accept that I'll never have a flat tummy again. I think you look so beautiful and need to learn to love yourself and accept that's just the way you are. Your Hubby obviously finds you sexy and loves you otherwise he wouldn't have married you xx
Thanks. I did have counselling a few years back for this issue. I just need to give myself a break. What is with the blonde thing and men anyway???
Glad you're back on track. Men are funny things. My partner seems to be completley obsessed with slim blondes (I'm brunette and not v slim). I'm just within the healthy range for my weight and a size 12. I have the opposite problem to you. I just have to look at food and put weight on!! I've had two children and have to accept that I'll never have a flat tummy again. I think you look so beautiful and need to learn to love yourself and accept that's just the way you are. Your Hubby obviously finds you sexy and loves you otherwise he wouldn't have married you xx
The fact that he feels like a failure means that he's bothered....he cares. If he was more interested in porn stars then he wouldn't have those feelings.
Have you been to the doctors about your weight? Might be over active thyroid or something like that? It's worth just checking it out to be on the safe side. x
He does - a lot. He's a great man - this is his only flaw.
I intend to check out weight with docs.
Thanks. I am really unhappy with my size. I am 6 stone 6 pound - extremely underweight. I am naturally tiny but have a good appetite for food. I would just love some curves to make me feel more womanly.
I did confront him and it did lead to an argument and a very upset husband and wife. He now feels like he is a failure at our marriage because I was so upset. We're working through it and I'm looking forward to making up.
The fact that he feels like a failure means that he's bothered....he cares. If he was more interested in porn stars then he wouldn't have those feelings.
Have you been to the doctors about your weight? Might be over active thyroid or something like that? It's worth just checking it out to be on the safe side. x
i'm glad you've sorted it out making up is always fun lol. he obviously loves you very much he married you after all not some slapper from a porn movie or whatever. i swear men see looking at porn as natural as scratching their arses i'm sure he didn't intend ti hurt you in any way. by the way your wedding pics are lovely, and you ARE stunning! x x
Thank you so much. That is a very scrubbed up version of me!!
Everybody is entitled to their opinion however I would have to disagree with the statement 'what the hell is a beautiful girl doing with a guy like that'. At the end of the day, this is the guy I have chosen to spend the rest of my life with. I think he is gorgeous and this 'issue' is his only flaw, granted a very upsetting one for me. Away from this he is a wonderful person who picked me up when I was in a really bad place and turned my life around. It was never him that sapped my confidence in the first place, he found me that way many years ago and believe me I am a more balanced person now so you can imagine what the previous person was like.
He was most upset when I told him and now feels a complete failure at our marriage. We have talked it through now and look forward to some fun making up!
i'm glad you've sorted it out making up is always fun lol. he obviously loves you very much he married you after all not some slapper from a porn movie or whatever. i swear men see looking at porn as natural as scratching their arses i'm sure he didn't intend ti hurt you in any way. by the way your wedding pics are lovely, and you ARE stunning! x x
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