i was told on friday that i had miscarried and am having the dnc tomorrow, my husband is being really sweet and really supportive but i dont know what to do or say to him. my first marriage fell apart after a miscarrage and turn't into a messy divorce.
i feel like im pushing my husband away because of what happened before i just dont know what to do anymore.
is this normal? or am i just being stupid. i love my husband so much and we have only been married 6 months
Tell him how you feel, how scared you are of losing him and how you feel about the m/c. I understand only too well how easy it is to push someone you love away for fear of losing them..but it really doesnt sound like you need to do this with your new husband. It sounds like you have something special, which is wonderful..talk to him xx and im sorry about your m/c xxxxx
awwwww im so sorry for your loss. if your husband is trying to help then let him help even if u just sit and cuddle in silence untill u do know what to say. hes feeling as sad as you are and you need to be there for him as much as he is for you. i think its quite natural to push those close to u away but you have to be aware of when ur crossing the line. you just have to try lean on eachother and stick together. dont let this terrible loss ruin ur family xxxx
i was told on friday that i had miscarried and am having the dnc tomorrow, my husband is being really sweet and really supportive but i dont know what to do or say to him. my first marriage fell apart after a miscarrage and turn't into a messy divorce.
i feel like im pushing my husband away because of what happened before i just dont know what to do anymore.
is this normal? or am i just being stupid. i love my husband so much and we have only been married 6 months
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