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oh and ask your doctor for Provera tablets. You have to take them for a week and they induce a period. If you have about 3 cycles, it should kick start you back into your usual cycle. They can also do a blood test on day 21 of your induced cycle to see if you are ovulating. Often if you aren't having periods, it means you aren't ovulating. If this is the case, they may refer you to a gynae/sub-fertility clinic and do more tests. they may also suggest Clomid tablets. I would deffo go back to the doctors and tell them everything! Say how you feel and tell him/her how hard you are finding it. They may know of something! I hope this is of some help hunny!! Good luck xx

Aww hun, i feel for you, i really do. i'm in a similar situation. Me and my Fiance have been trying for 18, almost 19 months now, and i'm still not pregnant. My sister and close cousin both got preg when we first started trying and they now have a little girl each. I get really upset around my niece and find it so hard to cope with seeing other people's pregnancy joys, and like you say, usually wasn't planned and they have everything we are trying so hard for, without actually putting effort in, or appreciating what they have. My best friend fell pregnant this time last year, and by the time she found out she was expecting, her relationship had ended. They weren't serious and she was just careless. At 9 weeks, she called me and said she had had a miscarriage. I was devastated. I found out that she had an abortion, and lied to me about the miscarriage, knowing full well that I have had 5 miscarriages, and how difficult and painful that was, and also that we were trying for a baby! I couldn't believe it! We have been friends since nursery! I hate abortion and think that it should only be allowed in extreme cases, like abuse or health problems. I was so hurt, i would even say i think it hurt me more than it hurt her. our friendship has really suffered. I couldn't believe she had just discarded a life, so precious and something that I'm trying so hard for, meant so little. I can completely understand where you are coming from. I know its her life and her choice, but you can't help but feel the way you do, it's only natural. I hope and pray that it will happen for all of us on here. If you need a chat or anything, you can always email me!! I really hope it happens soon for you hunny, and for the rest of us! Love Georgie

hi toddbinns. the herbal things are called Agnus Castus and i got them from holland and barretts. they are meant to regulate your hormones and periods, but i havent had any luck as of yet :-( x

I got my af sat in an ante-natal class with my heavily pregnant sister in law. The topic was meeting baby and I just sat there with tears streaming down my face....
Its so heartbreaking but its one thing we will not stop trying for and give up on.

Stick with it .. I am told it will happen eventually! We've been trying now for 14 months ... REALLY fed up. What are the herbal things you've been taking? Good luck and hope it happens soon.

yeah you are right abby. its just a bit frustrating. but i know you are right really, i need to start relaxing etc. we are off on holiday next week for two weeks so we can chill out and just forget about work and stuff. your not harsh, just realistic! :-)
thanks for the comment on my photo! x
dont worry daisy, it will happen for us soon! i can feel it in my waters lol

hi, I feel the same. I have been off the pill for just over a year and still nothing. Agree..... I know a lot of people who are pregnant and you can't help but think when is it going to be my turn. I am getting a period but I would stain very lightly for a day, then nothing and then again staining which is very frustrating! Hopefully are day will come soon. x

Hi, u getting urself worked up, u need to stop thinkin abt other ppl n there pregnacies, u need to relex and enjoy sex rather than thinkin of it to only get urself pregnant, n one day it'll happen for you 2, ma lil sis is the same as u, shes gets stressed as well, wen me n my partner tried i forgot we were even trying, just enjoyed not using protection n it took me 3months, i did one test coz i was feelin grumpy n was shocked, by all means have a word with ur doc, but dnt stress, they say that stressing out can make it harder 2get preg.
Sorry if i sound harsh.
(nice sari in ur pic)