feel so stupid!!!!

hi just feeling a bit dwn :((, i feel so stupid i'm 3 days late n today took a test which came bk negative i just feel so silly 4 gettin my hopes up i just wish id waited til af turned up cuz then i woulda known and wouldnt hav gotten my hopes up so much!! im so gutted as usually i am never late so i really thought this would b the month 4 me thing is i still havent come on and i kno im gunna keep my hopes up til i do even tho i kno deep dwn that i should just accept the negative result :((
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xXWishingXx
Reply xXWishingXx 8 months ago
well AF turned up 2day so pretty down but i spose at least i kno for definate now and just get on wiv things!!
thanx 4 all ur replies and hopefully il hav betta luck next month xx
prozacfairy
Reply prozacfairy 8 months ago
if its any consolation i was flipping out earlier this week coz i thought i was pregnant was also late coming on, felt sick gone off certain foods including chocolate (i know unthinkable!) and what you know? came on this morning. was just getting used to the idea myself. felt bit of a plonker too. i'm sorry your disappointed cant imagine how you feel bout that dont let it get you down it'll happen soon i'll bet look forward to next month and try not to feel down x x
RachaelK
Reply RachaelK 8 months ago
thanku hun,
i did think that but iv gone thru so many months of dissapointment it just gets me dwn every month
i start a new job in 2 weeks so maybe that will help to take my mind off things :)
yeh I'm sure that will help, give you something else to focus on other than wondering whether af will arrive every month. And you never know, you could still get that bfp this month =]
xXWishingXx
Reply xXWishingXx 8 months ago
you shouldn't feel stupid! If you're three days late there's no reason you shouldn't be pregnant. It could be that its just too early for it to show up. Don't feel stupid though, and don't feel down, stay positive, it will happen soon enough. Good luck and baby dust =]
thanku hun,
i did think that but iv gone thru so many months of dissapointment it just gets me dwn every month
i start a new job in 2 weeks so maybe that will help to take my mind off things :)
xXWishingXx
Reply xXWishingXx 8 months ago
aww hun, sorry about neg test, its horrible isnt it, how long you been trying? i was trying for a year and 1 month then went on the pill for a break, ill come of it after a few months, (periods are reli bad, and only way to stop them from bein so bad is bein on the pill) its hard not to get your hopes up, but what i tried to do was think that ur not streight away when your late then if u did get a pos u wouldnt of expected it if ya no what i mean? anyway good luck hun xxx
thanks, been trying for 3yrs now had tests etc... and mine are all fine but my other half has a slightly low sperm count which doctor said would improve if he cut down smoking etc... which he has done
so just got my hopes up a bit, yea i tried thinkin i wasnt lol kept tellin myself not 2 get my hopes up but dnt seem 2 work
oh well i spose theres always next month,
good luck 2 u aswell wen u start tryin again
take care xx
RachaelK
Reply RachaelK 8 months ago
you shouldn't feel stupid! If you're three days late there's no reason you shouldn't be pregnant. It could be that its just too early for it to show up. Don't feel stupid though, and don't feel down, stay positive, it will happen soon enough. Good luck and baby dust =]
megan2468
Reply megan2468 8 months ago
aww hun, sorry about neg test, its horrible isnt it, how long you been trying? i was trying for a year and 1 month then went on the pill for a break, ill come of it after a few months, (periods are reli bad, and only way to stop them from bein so bad is bein on the pill) its hard not to get your hopes up, but what i tried to do was think that ur not streight away when your late then if u did get a pos u wouldnt of expected it if ya no what i mean? anyway good luck hun xxx
xXWishingXx
Reply xXWishingXx 8 months ago
hi just feeling a bit dwn :((, i feel so stupid i'm 3 days late n today took a test which came bk negative i just feel so silly 4 gettin my hopes up i just wish id waited til af turned up cuz then i woulda known and wouldnt hav gotten my hopes up so much!! im so gutted as usually i am never late so i really thought this would b the month 4 me thing is i still havent come on and i kno im gunna keep my hopes up til i do even tho i kno deep dwn that i should just accept the negative result :((
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