feeling guilty

trust me I ain't but off that easy! I also look at it from this point of view - lie-ins are great but I've probably slept most of my life away I'm so lazy. Some early starts will do me good. The baby fat would be lovely, I'd kill for some curves and boobs! Makes a change to the bag of bones. I still get the jealous twinges but they have subsided somewhat at the moment. I'm sure they'll be back with a vengence when my niece/nephew arrives.

Hi girls, just to say i tried for 3 n half years to fall pregnant again it it was awful, every one of my friends were announcing they were having a sibling for their first and i started trying before all of them but it just wasn't happening for me, i ended up on fertility drugs which usually work in the first 3 months but unlucky for me i took em for a year but got nowhere. My son was getting older all the time and i'd always wanted my children close together. i was pleased for everyone but at the same time so jealous, i used to cry myself to sleep, wouldn't go in mothercare and just generally avoid anything to do with babies. I kinda gave up and thought that it was never gonna happen for me then out of the blue i fell pregnant. Its so hard not to be jealous, when all you want is what someone else has got. i remember being really really angry when one of my friends had a termination. Hopefully it will happen for you all really really soon! Good luck!!! xxxx

Girls,i completely understand how you feel,i was trying for 3 months,fell preg but lost the baby,my sister in law,got preg by accident and it seemed so unfair she had a very easy pregnancy,but now is suffering,she is very down and can't cope with how much she has had to give up and how her realationship has changed! I was very jealous of her the whole time but now i've realised the fact that my baby is planned (i'm now 9 weeks preg after a further 8 months of trying) and means the world to me already,my sister in law is always sayin how much she wished she had waited (she's 22) and how much she would do anything to swop places with me,as i'm loving being pregnant and can't wait to be a mum! I think what i'm trying to say is,your jealous of girls who just fall pregnant,but in the long run,your baby will be so special as it has been so planned and so wanted! I hope that kinda makes sense!

if i were you i'd be tempted to go for a long holiday in oct,poor you. still you never know you might have a bfp by then.last year i had a member of the family(who i cant stand) announce she was expecting for the fourth time and they always announce it on my wedding anniversary or xmas really spoiling things. i thought i've got ages probably i'll be expecting but then year later here a still am .It is awful and so hard when no one knows it hurts so much,now i avoid babies and its getting to point where i feel like telling everyone how i feel. have you been trying long? I'd happily wait for a lot longer if only i knew that one day it would happen for me. good luck to all of us

yeah gotta make the most of being able to have a lie in,and the freedom.babies do make things harder that said i still want one(one that sleeps all night would be nice!) just enjoy life and i'm sure it;ll happen for you when its meant to . by the way you do get over the birth,sleepness nights,baby fat etc in the end! dont wanna put you off to much good luck

glad i'm not the only one feeling a little green! I've got 6 friend pregnant and all due in oct! Try to be reaally please dof rhtme but deep down i keep thinking whhy not me !!! OH says not to worry and our time will come but just feel really depressed there all going for there 1st scans n i'm still trying. then i feel really bad because before we was trying i was really happy when any of my mates got pregnant. good luck to everyone xx

I know what you mean. I've been insanely jealous of my sister in law the whole time she's been pregnant. She only has a week or so to go now and I am far from jealous. She looks exhausted, can't sleep, can barely move and I think its just dawning on her what is about to happen. I have total cold feet now and decided I am going to stop worring about it and make the most of my time with my husband as newly(ish)weds with the cheeky glasses of wine and lie-ins.

it will be us soon hope you get your bfp soon.It will be worth waiting for.sending you babydust