can anyone out there offer hope?

hi are there any of you out there who have had tests to check for blocked tubes, anyone whos had this problem did you get it fixed i've just heard theres not much they can do for this is that right? also anyone had scarring following c section? i am in the process of being referred and i'm trying to work out what could be wrong after 19 months of trying .getting pretty worried it may be something they cant fix is anyone going through anything similiar or just fancy a moan? 2 more friends expecting and its just not fair. hope some of you getting great news this week
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honeypinkblo
Reply honeypinkblo 7 months ago
Hi, I had the dye test after I had baby no 2 (11 years ago)which showed i suffered with slight endemetriosis. I went on to have a laparoscopy which cleared the tubes and I am now 7 weeks pregnant with baby number 3. I have to admit that I haven't been trying for that length of time to conceive but when i decided to try again it took me 2 months to conceive. Good luck x
thanks for your reply its good to hear from someone whos got a big age as well i'm feeling nervous that if i do conceive i'll have 6/7year gap and 11/12. good luck with your baby
HayleyGiggle
Reply HayleyGiggle 7 months ago
Hi, I had the dye test after I had baby no 2 (11 years ago)which showed i suffered with slight endemetriosis. I went on to have a laparoscopy which cleared the tubes and I am now 7 weeks pregnant with baby number 3. I have to admit that I haven't been trying for that length of time to conceive but when i decided to try again it took me 2 months to conceive. Good luck x
honeypinkblo
Reply honeypinkblo 7 months ago
hey, no i havnt had the dye in my tubes, i was told about it ect but i want to carry on trying for a while first, i'm a tad scared that if they tell me theres a problem i might end up giving up, i'm glad i found this web site aswell as i only came across it by chance. i know what you mean tho if someone said to me i could get pregnant and everything was alright i'd feel alot more possitive too. And to make matters worse all my family have fallen within a few weeks and my nieces who are a few years younger than me have had a baby or is having, tho i think at my age its the right time to start trying as i'm 25 in may. how long have you been trying for your 3rd? i havn't been trying to long really and not very hard, but as i had an infection that i had got treated for but turned out it can't of worked before i met my lovely husband i kind of think what it may have done to my fertility ect, but when doing my reaserch and talking to the profession it seems the precentage is small but when TTC it always seems to drive you crazy and you always think the worst of everything and the worst case scenario, well i always do anyway lol, did you try for long with your first two?
hi yeah i know loads of people having babies and its so upsetting i feel like a failure.i've been trying for 20 months it feels like forever.i'm sure theres something wrong as thats such a long time,just wish i knew,also as i had csection worried something might have gone wrong and now i cant get pregnant.I got pregnant at 16 after 3 mnths of not trying and on the pill! at 20 i got married and started trying 3 months before my wedding as i wanted to be a pregnant bride!? i got pregnant on month 3 and msc a week before my wedding.after i got baby obsessed and it took 5 months so i cant see why this time if theres nothing wrong it would take so long.i think 25 is a great age you've had some freedom and its good to be young to cope with sleepness nghts etc. it sounds good for you though if the doctor said chances are you'll be fine but i bet you just really want to know.why would you give up? surely if you know then you can try to treat it i cant decide weather it'd be better to have a reason or not.it must be just as frustrating to have no reason.i never knew it would make me feel like this trying to conceive its so not fun! does your oh want a baby as much as you?mine does but hes getting fed up of me being so sad,its alright for him though he can make babies!take care hope it doesnt take you to long
sarahlowe
Reply sarahlowe 7 months ago
i bought her spell a year ago .I was just feeling really impatient and didnt think i'd have a problem conceiving as i have 2 children.asa times gone on i just feel more negative and worried.really glad i've found this site as oh is fed up with babies!how long have you been trying? did u get the all clear after the tubes test thing? i think if someone told me i could get pregnant i'd feel more positive but maybe i'd worry more it does drive you mad! good luck hope you get there soon
hey, no i havnt had the dye in my tubes, i was told about it ect but i want to carry on trying for a while first, i'm a tad scared that if they tell me theres a problem i might end up giving up, i'm glad i found this web site aswell as i only came across it by chance. i know what you mean tho if someone said to me i could get pregnant and everything was alright i'd feel alot more possitive too. And to make matters worse all my family have fallen within a few weeks and my nieces who are a few years younger than me have had a baby or is having, tho i think at my age its the right time to start trying as i'm 25 in may. how long have you been trying for your 3rd? i havn't been trying to long really and not very hard, but as i had an infection that i had got treated for but turned out it can't of worked before i met my lovely husband i kind of think what it may have done to my fertility ect, but when doing my reaserch and talking to the profession it seems the precentage is small but when TTC it always seems to drive you crazy and you always think the worst of everything and the worst case scenario, well i always do anyway lol, did you try for long with your first two?
honeypinkblo
Reply honeypinkblo 7 months ago
i'm sorry to hear that honeypinkblo, when did you try her spell? you would think getting pregnant would be one of the most easiest things ever, but its totaly the hardest and one of the most emotional thing we can put our selfs threw, it makes me a little fed up to think how long from now is it going to be and what am i going to have to go threw before i come pregnant if at all. But if we didnt try and think possitive i think half of us would be in a right state. i hope everything works out for us all hun. takecare
i bought her spell a year ago .I was just feeling really impatient and didnt think i'd have a problem conceiving as i have 2 children.asa times gone on i just feel more negative and worried.really glad i've found this site as oh is fed up with babies!how long have you been trying? did u get the all clear after the tubes test thing? i think if someone told me i could get pregnant i'd feel more positive but maybe i'd worry more it does drive you mad! good luck hope you get there soon
sarahlowe
Reply sarahlowe 7 months ago
the test does sound scary but i think its better to know and i've heard of lots of people being convinced theres a problem and getting the all clear.i havent seen specialist yet so got a way to go to get test done. how far is anyone going to go to try and conceive i'm feeling really negative and fed up.i've tried mias spell and it didnt work for me but it might for you if you believe in it!good luck
i'm sorry to hear that honeypinkblo, when did you try her spell? you would think getting pregnant would be one of the most easiest things ever, but its totaly the hardest and one of the most emotional thing we can put our selfs threw, it makes me a little fed up to think how long from now is it going to be and what am i going to have to go threw before i come pregnant if at all. But if we didnt try and think possitive i think half of us would be in a right state. i hope everything works out for us all hun. takecare
sarahlowe
Reply sarahlowe 7 months ago
wen i had dte put through my tubes last yr they sed bout bein awake wen they dne it bt i sed cnt i be put 2sleep and they sed yes! it made my tummy turn wen they sed bout bein awake,so was put out,so much better as nt good wiv pain myself!just went 2 a day clinic,in and out in bout 6hrs!maybe ask bout that as ur nt a fan of hospitals!!??
never heard of the MIA spells,def gona have a look on ebay! xx
yes you should hun, she has so much feed back and fantastic testamonies about wemon who had nearly given up hope and tryed her to see what it would bring and some even admit to being sceptical but it worked, she says up to 12 weeks to wait and if after 12 weeks your not pregnant you get a full refund. Anythings worth a try right?.............
mindyloulou
Reply mindyloulou 7 months ago
hey everyone, im in the kinda same situation, as for a few years i had an infection which i was treated for and only found out i still had this is because last year i had a little ache in my hips so as i had been thinking about trying for a baby i thought id better have a health check and a smear test and it turned out poss, i am married and have been for a while so we have both been treated and theres every possible chance my tubes could be blocked ect, tho when ive done my reasearch and asked the doctors they said chances are slim ect but it still dosnt make you feel better as every ones different and there is always that chance, the only thing is they have said they could do a scan and the HSG (the dye) are you awake when they does this?? im terrified of hospitals ect and really scared of ayone telling me that theres anything wrong with anything lol i suppose its a phobia i have, and im glad there is an opperation to unblock the tubes but when ive read about this it says it can carry a risk of scaring your tubes further and that makes me a little scared to. im glad i'm not alone and its nice to know people can help as the doctors more or less leave me in a wondering or puzzled state. have any of you hurd about MIA she casts spells for fertility and has a good trck record on EBAY and she can do spells for infertility problems no matter what kind, her spells are 93/97% effective and even been mentioned in the mother and pregnancy mag last year, i may give it a try and see what happens. anyways good luck
wen i had dte put through my tubes last yr they sed bout bein awake wen they dne it bt i sed cnt i be put 2sleep and they sed yes! it made my tummy turn wen they sed bout bein awake,so was put out,so much better as nt good wiv pain myself!just went 2 a day clinic,in and out in bout 6hrs!maybe ask bout that as ur nt a fan of hospitals!!??
never heard of the MIA spells,def gona have a look on ebay! xx
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