messed up fertility signs. I'm confused and feeling down!!!

Hello, so glad I found this site... I really need to talk to someone. been trying for a while now, but no success. My fertility signs are all messed up! Long cycles, several patches of fertile cervical fluid. My temperature in different cycles is not consistent (though have checked with a second thermometer and readings are identical on both). My Luteal phase is not consistent over the different cycles. My ferning microscope is giving me fertile readings at different times to my cervical fluid and these are also not consistent with my temperature rise. It all really doesn't make any sense. Has anyone been in a similar position? What is my body telling me? Which sign is most likely to be correct the cervical fluid, the temperature or the ferning microscope?
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mollycoddles
Reply mollycoddles 5 months ago
hi i'm just sending you a general message which may help.you may already know that diet can make a huge difference but you can get special diets to help fibroids and endro.try googleing these books that are great are getting pregnant faster by maryn glendville and the fastest way to get pregnant naturally by christopher williams.these books have loads of advice and helped me feel more positive might be worth a try. diet can also help with ovulation so they say.hope you get some news and help soon.dont give up and bug the docs til they help you!tc
Hi Honeypinkblo,
I really appreciate your help. I'm a little sceptical of just buying text I see advertised on the net but as you've tried and tested it I might consider it.
I had heard about diet being helpful with endo and fibroids. My foot reflexologist is also a nutritionist (she suggested ground flaxseed/linseed) and I was booked in to see her but after I told her about the referal she suggested waiting till I'd had my appointment thinking the more info she was equiped with, the better her tailor made diet would be.
Am thinking of sending my hubby as well. We suspect he may have diabetes, (though I'm sure it would be diet controlled as symptoms are very mild). Again diabetes may affect his fertility too... so sounds like we are both under the microscope. Fingers crossed we will have our baby(s) though.
Really appreciate your advice!!!
honeypinkblo
Reply honeypinkblo 5 months ago
Will do... I do know someone who tried for 4 years. She had 3 miscarriages in that time but now has a gorgeous baby boy. You will do it!!!
hi i'm just sending you a general message which may help.you may already know that diet can make a huge difference but you can get special diets to help fibroids and endro.try googleing these books that are great are getting pregnant faster by maryn glendville and the fastest way to get pregnant naturally by christopher williams.these books have loads of advice and helped me feel more positive might be worth a try. diet can also help with ovulation so they say.hope you get some news and help soon.dont give up and bug the docs til they help you!tc
mollycoddles
Reply mollycoddles 5 months ago
Thanks, its getting close to 2years now (22mnth) so i'm pretty fed up. Let us know how ur app. goes. xc
Will do... I do know someone who tried for 4 years. She had 3 miscarriages in that time but now has a gorgeous baby boy. You will do it!!!
Whitti32
Reply Whitti32 5 months ago
oh I feel for you!!! I dread having to wait ages to finally get pregnant. What scares me the most is the idea that it may take ages to get pregnant, and due to delayed ovulation I'm at a higher risk of miscarriage. Scarey, don't know how I would cope if the worst happened. I hope it all goes well for you!
fingers crossed for you.
Thanks, its getting close to 2years now (22mnth) so i'm pretty fed up. Let us know how ur app. goes. xc
mollycoddles
Reply mollycoddles 5 months ago
Still having tests, the 2nd one is at the end of June. It's all the waiting that is hard. xc
oh I feel for you!!! I dread having to wait ages to finally get pregnant. What scares me the most is the idea that it may take ages to get pregnant, and due to delayed ovulation I'm at a higher risk of miscarriage. Scarey, don't know how I would cope if the worst happened. I hope it all goes well for you!
fingers crossed for you.
Whitti32
Reply Whitti32 5 months ago
thanks, got the letter this week, 24th July. I can't wait... really hoping they can give me some help! Were you sucessful? Fingers crossed for you!
Still having tests, the 2nd one is at the end of June. It's all the waiting that is hard. xc
mollycoddles
Reply mollycoddles 5 months ago
I got referred to a fertility clinic (NHS)in 8-10 weeks, but it probably depends on your area.xc
thanks, got the letter this week, 24th July. I can't wait... really hoping they can give me some help! Were you sucessful? Fingers crossed for you!
Whitti32
Reply Whitti32 5 months ago
I'm really confused now! Have charted 3 cycles. they varied from 33 to 56 days in length. All three very different. Most recent cycle seemed most normal. Seemed to get BD at right times. Almost cried this time when I realised we are still not getting anywhere!
Has anyone out there been succesful despite seriously irregular periods and other complications?
Has anyone out there seen a specialist... can you give me an idea of how long the wait was on the NHS to see someone?
I really don't want to wait a year, I'm not getting any younger.
I got referred to a fertility clinic (NHS)in 8-10 weeks, but it probably depends on your area.xc
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