hi all i have a 10wk old baby girl oakleigh willow, since ive had my princess, hubby has right gone off me i feel like a piece of s hit. i starts tiffs so he dosenet talk all day( started one today because i sad i thought he had been asleep while i took 4 year old and 10wk old to ballet class)he went in a right strop hes been upstairs all day and has only been down 4 meals so i have had 4 kids all day. he never wants sex he would rather pull his own bits than do anythin,, my baby has her last bottle at 10pm he makes sure hes asleep b4 i finish just case i ask 4 anythin,, when we do anythin its like hes not enjoyin it. anyway another probem s i think hes falin 4 a good mate of mine (my 4 year old daughters best friends mom) she was away last week after my oh took her and her oh and kids to airport. hes been fine all week untill today. he picked them up from airport last night and i went with her today to ballet rehersal and hes been fun again today.. he does nothin 2 help me with kids or home what do i do? darcie
hmmmm give him reality check, pack his bags n show him the door! sounds like hes abit of a disrespectable plank! not spkin 2 u all day! oh how lovely he sounds! ur days must b gr8! ur worth more than that hun! stand ur ground, n if he is fallin 4 ur m8 then id defo say 2 him do 1! xxxxxx
its a good insult :). personally i think this bloke sounds like a lazy selfish s0d and needs to be told to pull his finger out and reminding that seeing as she can clearly manage the kids alone he is expendable. if you wanted another dependable you'd visit battersea dogs home and adopt a stray, am i right? i'm not sure this is the healthiest approach but hey works on my man. also if your mans falling for another woman even if she is mate i'd pack his bags for him and tell her shes welcome to him. im sorry i know it aint what you want to hear and i probably not helping i'm being anti men lately, quite frankly they all toss pots including mine... x x
Ahahaha this made me chuckle! Bloody battersea dogs home - PMSL!
Unless you confront him hun, your never going to get the answer your looking for; and all you'll do is get even more worried about it all and everything he does you'll be thinking about 'is he texting her' or 'his he "going to get ilk" to go and see her'.
Or maybe confront this woman, if you know her well enough you shuold be able to know if shes lying or not. (although if it turns out your wrong, could be a bit of conflication and awkwardness)
But you need to get straight on the case hun, cor i tell you if my man did any of these things, he'd sure know about it straight away.
'He doesnt talk to you all day'? he needs some serious lessons in how to be respectful!
Sorry if its not what you wanted to hear, but right now, by the sounds of it - hes being less helpful atm than if you chucked him out!
xxx
hehe, i think kate likes to call people toss pots :) ive noticed you use it quit frequently xx
its a good insult :). personally i think this bloke sounds like a lazy selfish s0d and needs to be told to pull his finger out and reminding that seeing as she can clearly manage the kids alone he is expendable. if you wanted another dependable you'd visit battersea dogs home and adopt a stray, am i right? i'm not sure this is the healthiest approach but hey works on my man. also if your mans falling for another woman even if she is mate i'd pack his bags for him and tell her shes welcome to him. im sorry i know it aint what you want to hear and i probably not helping i'm being anti men lately, quite frankly they all toss pots including mine... x x
hehe, i think kate likes to call people toss pots :) ive noticed you use it quit frequently xx
lol sorry if my question was a tad on the blunt side but he sounds like a waste of space. x
Has he always been a toss pot or it is a recent thing? x
I just spat my water everywhere!! x
i tell you what,wait till kids are in bed,and confront him,you've just given him a baby,you deserve more respect hun,who knows whats going through his head? tell him you wanna talk.tell him your not happy with your sex life,and you feel unloved! ask him whats going on? i know it must be so hard! but u deserve to know whats wrong if anything is wrong! good luck let me know how it goes mate leah xx
i agree with leah. confront him. and if hes asleep wake him up, make noise and turn the light on and demand to talk. maybe hes jelous of the new baby, im sure theres lots of emotions going about. i hope things work out ok and let us know. xxx
Has he always been a toss pot or it is a recent thing? x
lol speak ya mind girl! lol xx
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