overreacting?

i kind of see why that would upset you but at the same time there is no way i would let my OH dictate to me that i couldnt use facebook etc. i wouldnt stop him using it (not that he does much). when you say flirty how flirty? i flirt with plenty of people so does my OH it bothers him but dont bother me when he does it. there is a line that can be crossed with what you say obviously. is he still good friends with his ex? if so is it really an issue for you if they just friends? he is probably deleting stuff so as not to upset you (ironic really). but if you ban him from facebook or whatever you'll only push him away and make him resentful, likewise if he banned you from something you enjoyed or stopped you speaking to people. sorry if that not what you want to hear x x

erm well he did promise u he wldnt go on it, espec if it caused u both probs in the past! so mayb id say no ur not ova reactin! id defo ave a word wiv him abt it n ask wots goin on! but in a civil mannor! if u go in guns a blazin arguements will happen! so keep a kool head in this hot heat! xxxxx

he was sending messages to his ex but deleting them...sending emails to girls instead of on walls...talking to people who had tried to cause sh*t between us etc...all quiet flirty aswell! x

Truthfully, i think you are over reacting but there again i dont know the full story. I wouldnt be happy if OH told me i couldnt go on facebook and i know he wouldnt be happy if i told him the same. But on saying that, we both know each others passwords (to put photos on and leave silly status updates like richard cant believe how lucky he is to have rachel in his life etc) and we have never given each other a reason to doubt one another. What secret messages has he been sending???
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my OH promised me a while ago that he would no longer go on facebook as it has caused many problems for us in the best (secret messages...goin on it behind my back etc!) and today i found out he had been using it again. i dont know if im overreactig by being off with him but i just feel so let down that he could break a promise over something like this and makes me question all the other promises made! truthfully am i overreacting? xx