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exactly the same as one of my work colleagues who now has gorgeous baby boy!

hi ann no they wont do a scan and i would of known bout it if it was eptopic lol thanks for all ur surport and yh will be going to the doctors that is one thing they told me to do is go docs n ask for tests to see why im misscaraging

oh lauren i feel for u so much hun,r they going to scan u, they did with me even though i bled a lot to check it wasnt ectopic, i am not trying to worry you, but r they expecting u to bleed sweetie, just taking a pregnancy test seems to me like they should be looking after u more not just sending u away.its aheartbreaking time for u both and i feel terrible for you. please remember i am always here for you, and will support u in any way i can.please dont give up u can fall pregnant hun, the dr must see u and do afew tests even blood tests to see if they can see why this is happening, i am sure u will get there hun and i understand how traumatic it is for u, please take care and let me know how u r xxx

hi chloe but i dnt think i can do that as i think of it as if its gunna happen its gunna happen like in dnt think i can put my foot dwn i have a lil girl already i had 2 mc before i had her and like this is my 3 rd 1 in march another in april and today like it runs in my family mu kuz she has had 5 mc and now she is 12 weeks preggers with twins and im so so so jealouse like she had her 12 week scan today and i got told i lost the bby today n i just want it to happen to me i relie want another bby

hiya hunnie, I just want to say I can understand sort of how your feeling, I had an accident 4 years ago where I was knocked over and then a few months later found I was pregnant which ended in a m/c, I wanted to know if this was because of the accident but they told me they wouldnt be able to do any tests until after I had 3 m/c. My early pregnancy unit was awful with me when it happened and I was referred back to them when I had trouble early on with my daughter and they were the same but I have been having a lot of trouble again and have been back and I didn't half give them some grief you have to put your foot down with them, they left me a week this time not explaining things properly to me, I had a cyst on my ovary and they left me for a week thinking I had cancer as they told me they had to keep their eye on it as it may be cancerous and wouldnt say anything else. I put my foot down a week later when I had to go back and they are bending over backwards for me now they rang me after my scan to say congratulations and everything. you get nothing off them if you aren't firm. ask them about these tests say you want some answers as this is your 3rd and its tearing you apart, its horrible when it happens but its even worse not knowing why demand some answers keep us updated. so sorry again for your loss keep strong xx

So sorry to hear your sad news : ( I hope you take some comfort from everyones experiences - big hugs xxx

Really sorry to hear your news. I had a m/c last year and I can remember how awful it felt. They should definitely scan you though to make sure your ok and that you dont need any further medical attention. Make sure you go and see your GP and tell them what happened at the hospital.
I know its not much consilation but my friend had 7 m/c and now has perfect little twins a girl and boy so dont give up xxxxx

hi all thanks for all ur messages and yh i asked for a scan but they dnt scan me i dnt like it at my earlt pregnancy unit they just dnt listen but these things happen i relie thought this was the one but gotta try again xxxxxxxx