Sounds about right. They have no idea what we go through and how tired we get its all about them isnt it x
Yep!! Spot on.
he kept tellin me 'why is it always about you?!'
the bloomin cheek of him!!
He txt the other day and said there was probs with our relationship from before Dean was conceived. What probs were these?! I've no clue and this could have been fixed if he had let me know 9 months before Dean was born!!! GRRRRRR
I just think he is being really selfish (man trait me thinks!)
cherry on the cake is this isn't his 1st child either!!
Sounds about right. They have no idea what we go through and how tired we get its all about them isnt it x
It sounds to me he is a maybe freaking out about the new baby and actually having a baby of his own.
Men can really take the P cant they? My fella just decides he's going out an will go, or will stay in bed all day.. Men huh xx
I just think he is being really selfish (man trait me thinks!)
cherry on the cake is this isn't his 1st child either!!
u say he wasnt helping so u no u can do it on ya own cos u have been my ex went i throw him out all he did all day was eat sleep internet he didnt even look 4 work he was nasty to my son and stricked even thow my boy is autistic and has adha im just over 9 moth preg now and i think il get on better on my own i did with my first son and im reg disabled if he can say things like that then that shows me that he will treat the kids diff he will fav the baby cos thats his work is hard we have all dun it but beeing a parent is a full time job u never get to clock of no matter how tied u r u have to keep going i hope u do what is rith 4 u and your kids good luck
Thanks Amanda, thank you for your reply!
I think it will just be me n the kids from now on, better off I think!!
Good luck I have posted a reply to your 'labour and pain'
u say he wasnt helping so u no u can do it on ya own cos u have been my ex went i throw him out all he did all day was eat sleep internet he didnt even look 4 work he was nasty to my son and stricked even thow my boy is autistic and has adha im just over 9 moth preg now and i think il get on better on my own i did with my first son and im reg disabled if he can say things like that then that shows me that he will treat the kids diff he will fav the baby cos thats his work is hard we have all dun it but beeing a parent is a full time job u never get to clock of no matter how tied u r u have to keep going i hope u do what is rith 4 u and your kids good luck
Well can I just say I tend to bottle things up as well, The last straw was Fri 12th June he came home from work, just sat in the kitchen and without even sayin anything to me went to his bed!! I just about had a fit, gathered up the kids and went to my mums as the wee boy had a tiny bit of colic.
The argument started on the Sunday as I couldn't talk to him as I was too angry with him as he kept givin me lame excuses for why he was being that way.
I was just askin for more help from him, he kept coming back with nobody lets him do anything for Dean.
The thing that really sticks in my throat was he said "I felt under pressure as YOUR! daughter keeps telling me I'm doing it wrong"
He hasn't been thro to see any of us keeps sayin he has no money cause he got fired from his job when he moved out.
It sounds to me he is a maybe freaking out about the new baby and actually having a baby of his own.
Men can really take the P cant they? My fella just decides he's going out an will go, or will stay in bed all day.. Men huh xx
Can I ask how far the argument went? what was said? Me and my partner have had several arguments about the same thing, him not doing his part. It woldve helped if I spoke up when something annoyed me rather than leaving it all till I just exploded with rage.
Has he been to see the baby, children or you?xx
Well can I just say I tend to bottle things up as well, The last straw was Fri 12th June he came home from work, just sat in the kitchen and without even sayin anything to me went to his bed!! I just about had a fit, gathered up the kids and went to my mums as the wee boy had a tiny bit of colic.
The argument started on the Sunday as I couldn't talk to him as I was too angry with him as he kept givin me lame excuses for why he was being that way.
I was just askin for more help from him, he kept coming back with nobody lets him do anything for Dean.
The thing that really sticks in my throat was he said "I felt under pressure as YOUR! daughter keeps telling me I'm doing it wrong"
He hasn't been thro to see any of us keeps sayin he has no money cause he got fired from his job when he moved out.
Can I ask how far the argument went? what was said? Me and my partner have had several arguments about the same thing, him not doing his part. It woldve helped if I spoke up when something annoyed me rather than leaving it all till I just exploded with rage.
Has he been to see the baby, children or you?xx
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