2nd childs surname

i think hed love 2 he treats her like shes his own but even tho Ebony hasnt saw her dad 4 about a year coz he said he didnt want anything else 2 do iv her wen his hew gf got pregnant i still think he wouldnt agree 2 it do i need 2 have his permission 2 do that? and also Ebony still goes 2 his parents 4 a night at the wkend and im not sure how they would react 2 it x

I have a different last name to my little brother, my mum did add the last name of her ex husband onto my name when they were together (not officially- It wasnt on any official documents I dont think) so I was able to just stop using it when I wanted.

How does your partner feel about maybe adopting your daughter and giving her his last name if it is of serious concern to you?xx

hey my 1st child is 4yrs old after sufferin domestic violence wiv her dad i decided 2 leave him wen she was 4 wks old and on the day we should of registerd her he didnt show i went on my own and so this ment she had 2 have my surname i met some1 else after we r very happy and now have my 2nd baby on the way im 29 wks so have been startin 2 think about names he really wants the baby 2 have his last name which i dont have a problem with but im just scared that my lil girl will feel left out not havin the same surname as her baby sister and im worried about wen they go school 2getha and people sayin things about them havin different surnames i have told him about this but he says its not fair 4 him 2 loose out on havin his baby named after him just coz of what a t**t (excuse the language) my ex was which i can understand i have suggested havin mine and hi last name but he said it sounds silly so i was just wonderin if any1 has been in this sort of situaltion and can give me some advise or has children with different surnames and if it really bothers the them fanxs sorry i didnt realise id wrote so much i do ramble on lol