Just realised how mad that last question sounded, let me explane a little more, we are trying for another baby again, no luck yet, we where just woundering if after sex if we should wait any particular lenght of lime before having a wash, maybee the fact that having a wash too soon is washing the sperm out before it has had chance to get any where, but dont want to leave it too long as it can be a uncumfortable feeling of needing to have a wash. any help would be very much appreciated. thanks...