an odd question for you all...sorry

ok so you are all going to think im nuts but you have to excuse me, i am 38 weeks pregnant! lol well long story but here it goes. we decided not to find out the sx of our child this time, i wanted itt i be a suprise. i dont know if you guys believe in all this psychic stuff but my parents had a lady go to their house and read their future. she told them the sex of our babya nd the day she thought it was going to be born. i was a little annoyed at this and asked them to keep it to themselves. but it turns out OH knows and his dad too. and my father in law let it slip this evening. im so so so annoyed as i really didnt want to know. we still dont know if it really is going to be a boy but i just feel like the whole suprise has been taken out of it. we have come this far without knowing aswell. i wouldnt have believed in this stuff before my first daughter was born but my parents saw the same woman when i was expecting my little girl. she told them that i was carrying a girl and she was right, in fact they didnt even know i was expecting before the woman told them. does anyone else believe in this sorta stuff? i know its 50/50 wether or n ot it is a boy. do you all think im rediculous? after reading this again it sounds pretty silly. but i just needed to rant am wishing its a girl now as i think im going to be disappointed if after all this time getting excited i already knew! ps feel free to tell me to get a grip
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Clairejosh
Reply Clairejosh 4 months ago
I understand why you feel like the surprise is over, i would be annoyed too because although im not really sure if psychics is real, theres a chance they are, and if thats the case then the surprise is gone then and out of respect, your perants shouldnt have asked. x
WillowTurner
Reply WillowTurner 4 months ago
I saw a psychic in August of last year and she said I would get pregnant pretty soon, as in that year and to be careful its not by the wrong guy and it'd be a gorgeous girl.

Turns out I was already pregnant (a week) when I saw her and I'd split with my fella and slept with someone else, there was issues as to whos baby it was btu luckily its my partners (we got back together) and I had a goregous little girl xx
chloe71106
Reply chloe71106 4 months ago
omg thats so freaky, ive never really believed in this stuff and always believed that things happen because of the choices we make. but after reading your post and hearing what other people i know have been told im slightly spooked that somebody that dont even know you to be able to tell you such private things about yourself. i dont think i will ever have enough courage to visit a psychic for myself.
i am pretty convinced its a boy now after hearing stories from friends so quiet a lot disappointed and a little annoyed at the fact other people knows my news, what happened to confidentiality???
I know well we made the mistake of letting MIL know things before other people and when it came to us telling everyone, they already knew, did it different this time, she ofund out at the same time (or after) everyone else haha!, at the end of the day it doesnt really matter if people know you still feel annoyed but it wont mean anything as soon as your baby is in your arms, and like you say at least you still have the names as a surprise lol xx
elliesmumi
Reply elliesmumi 4 months ago
You know whats really freakky, I saw a psychic the other week i went in thinking oh its just a laugh bla bla and I ended up coming out crying, the things she said to me were so intense and nobody could have known in that much detail, she told me about my MIL and about how she had made my life an absolute hell. she told me about my auntie who died last year name and all, some things about some of my cousins and uncle, my next door neighbour, all by name. but the thing that freaked me out was the fact that she knew I had a daughter, I have a tattoo of my daughters name on my wrist but I made sure I kept it well covered she told me her name begins with a C which it does (Chloe) she also told me we had a name picked out for her but decided last minute not to use it which began with and L and we did. she also told me about a m/c i had just over 3 and a half years ago and she told me I was pregnant now, which I am I was having a lot of trouble with my pregnancy including a large cyst on my ovary which she told me, she told me I was having another girl and my O/H would be happy but would have preferred a boy but he will get his boy in a couple of years, she told me I had my daughter by ceserean and would have to have them all like that which I knew anyway but it was just amazing yet freaky at the same time! so yeah I do believe but if you had asked me 5 weeks ago I would have laughed in your face! xx
omg thats so freaky, ive never really believed in this stuff and always believed that things happen because of the choices we make. but after reading your post and hearing what other people i know have been told im slightly spooked that somebody that dont even know you to be able to tell you such private things about yourself. i dont think i will ever have enough courage to visit a psychic for myself.
i am pretty convinced its a boy now after hearing stories from friends so quiet a lot disappointed and a little annoyed at the fact other people knows my news, what happened to confidentiality???
goodstuff831
Reply goodstuff831 4 months ago
I think you should take this all with a pinch of salt. Even scans can be wrong - I had a lady come into where I work to tell me that her granddaughter was in fact a grandson...after 2 scans and them buying everything pink!!! Just look back on the information that you know rather than looking to it coming true. Let us know what you have though!
OMG!! thats scary reading that about them getting the sex wrong after 2 scans!! we've been told twice its a girl and have therefore bought EVERYTHING in pink!! the nursery is all pink etc too!! got a 4d scan coming up on the 11th thank god...surely they couldnt get it wrong 3 times!! what a thought!!
chloe71106
Reply chloe71106 4 months ago
You know whats really freakky, I saw a psychic the other week i went in thinking oh its just a laugh bla bla and I ended up coming out crying, the things she said to me were so intense and nobody could have known in that much detail, she told me about my MIL and about how she had made my life an absolute hell. she told me about my auntie who died last year name and all, some things about some of my cousins and uncle, my next door neighbour, all by name. but the thing that freaked me out was the fact that she knew I had a daughter, I have a tattoo of my daughters name on my wrist but I made sure I kept it well covered she told me her name begins with a C which it does (Chloe) she also told me we had a name picked out for her but decided last minute not to use it which began with and L and we did. she also told me about a m/c i had just over 3 and a half years ago and she told me I was pregnant now, which I am I was having a lot of trouble with my pregnancy including a large cyst on my ovary which she told me, she told me I was having another girl and my O/H would be happy but would have preferred a boy but he will get his boy in a couple of years, she told me I had my daughter by ceserean and would have to have them all like that which I knew anyway but it was just amazing yet freaky at the same time! so yeah I do believe but if you had asked me 5 weeks ago I would have laughed in your face! xx
DummyMummy
Reply DummyMummy 4 months ago
I think you should take this all with a pinch of salt. Even scans can be wrong - I had a lady come into where I work to tell me that her granddaughter was in fact a grandson...after 2 scans and them buying everything pink!!! Just look back on the information that you know rather than looking to it coming true. Let us know what you have though!
elliesmumi
Reply elliesmumi 4 months ago
well i thought that a suprise would make it even more worth it in the end. i just feel so peed off that people know as its suposed to be my news and me whos telling them in 10days! not the other way around. but i have kept names a secret so im thinking at least ive got one element of suprise left!
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