As u may know my wee unborn baby has triploidy. Was back at hops on tue had scan done and little baby has now started to die. It's curled it's wee self up so much that we couldnt make out that it was our wee baby. The wee heart is still goin but not as strong as it has been. Doc told us to come back next tue and do another scan but togo home and plan baby's funeral. So we came home devastated and upset like we've never been in our lives. We have thought of names and Ive written a poem, James has chosen a song. We just can't believe that all our dreams of having this wee baby are gone and replaced with a gut wrenching, shattering heavy aching pain known as heartbreak. I feel like I'm doin the right thing by letting little baby decide when it wants to go to heaven, rather than being presured by the hosp to terminate and get on with it. (In their words)
I am so so sorry to hear your news. My thoughts are with you and partner at this awful time.
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Hi, i just wanted to say that i think your are truly remarkable in standing your ground and letting your wee one decide when to join the Angels. Im so sorry for the pain you and your partner are going through and send you all my love and hugs. As someone has said..we are all here for you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
I just came across your post, i can't believe how brave you are being. the others are right, you decide what you want to do, don't let the hosp. dictate to you. i had a m/c last month and i've been struck by how many really supportive caring people there are out there. this site really helped me when i was going through it. thinking of you, x
Im so sorry, I don't know what to say to you. You are being so strong and it must be breaking your heart. there is a lovely poem on here to, Ill try and find it and put it in this link. xxx
Huni I am so so sorry to hear your heartbreaking news.
You stick with what you and your partner want to do & don't let the Hospital pressure you into anything you don't want to do.
My thoughts are with you both we're all here for u.
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Can't even begin to imagine what you must be going through and can't think of any words to try to help you through this difficult time or to take your pain away. Just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Sending you lots of love.xx
I'm so sorry for all that you are going you and I'm sending you all the love I can, try and stay strong sweetie, I can only imagine how hard it is right now xxx
oh my god I am so sorry to hear your such sad news! How devistating hun I really dont know what to say to you but all I wna do is give ya a hug! Try and be strong for your little buba and know that they will always be with you! sending you so much love and cuddles take care of yourself hunny xxxxx
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