Thanks so much for your advice.
Trying again only really entered my head this weekend as I honestly have just been so upset about losing this baby we let of a balloon up to the Sky Begn of the week and i was so upset but also found it helped as well....
So I really haven't thought yeah lets just try again straight away like I know some people do. That might be good for them but I wouldn't of been able to face it.
I think I will wait for my first period and see how it all goes.
Hope everything is good with all of you
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Hi I agree with staceydoo, you both need to be emotionally ready. Sadly I have been where you are and my first instinct was to start trying again straight away, then I started to feel guilty (about the lo I lost), you do need time to grieve. I would wait until you start your cycle again as this way if you are lucky to conceive again quickly you will know how far you are gone xx
I agree,i m/c last year at 10weeks and it shattered my world,at first i just thought 'i wannabe pregnant right away' but realised i needed time to let go for the pregnancy i lost,i felt guilty for even thinking about another baby so i think if i had fallen pregnant right away it would of been a mixture of feelings,i felt i wouldn't bond with another pregnancy right away,but anyhow it took us 8 months to fall pregnant again and in a way i'm pleased it took that bit longer as it gave us time,and when i fell pregnant i felt ready to face another pregnancy...we're all different and some it takes that little bit longer,some girls feel ready right away...good luck,my heart goes out to you and i wish you all the luck in your next pregnany! x
Hi I agree with staceydoo, you both need to be emotionally ready. Sadly I have been where you are and my first instinct was to start trying again straight away, then I started to feel guilty (about the lo I lost), you do need time to grieve. I would wait until you start your cycle again as this way if you are lucky to conceive again quickly you will know how far you are gone xx
Thanks Hun,Im also so paranoid about getting pregnant again thou:-(.
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I can understand why, but you have us girls to talk about your worries to. :) x
Thanks Hun,Im also so paranoid about getting pregnant again thou:-(.
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Hey I haven't been but I think you and OH should go for it when you both feel ready babe only you will know then the times is right. Finger crossed for you
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Heya,
As some of you know i misscarried about 3 weeks ago now was honestly the mot Heartbreaking thing that has happend to me.
I have been really emotional about the whole thing but now thinking of starting to try again soon? As we really are desperate for another little one.
But am unsure as I still haven't had my period yet? Just wanting to know what other people did in this situation and if you had any advice? Thanks Girlies.
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