is he cheating or am i really just a possesive cow?

i feel so sorry for you your head must be in bits its not easy feeling so lonely like you have nowhere to turn with your problems i can honestly say that i dont know what i would do because i know you dont want to jump the gun and tell him u know hes been upto no good because u feel like havent got enough evidence and you dont wanna sit back and let it carry on because your gut feeling is that something dodgey is goin on because u no him and he hasnt been being himself. you must feel like ur in a loose loose situation i have got really bad trust isues because of my childhood too and me and my bf have problems about things too and i always think im the paranoid one i think you shud jus ssay to him when he gets home we need to talk i need to know your reason why you rang her and see if it adss up tell him you have already rang her and asked her what he rang for and you wan to hear it from him see what he says dont let it get you down hun xx

That sounds like a good plan hun..even if u are being insecure..he isnt exactly comforting u or reassuring u is he? Wish u luck 4 when he gets in and u speak 2 him :) x

i know i should go and see her but im not the type of pewrson that likes confrontation and i think she would just lie anyway,
i just really dont know wat to do cuz i live over 200 miles away from my family and friends and the only friends i have here are his friends so i havent got no1 2 talk 2 about it :( and everytime i try to talk bout it he just says 'oh well if u dnt trust me then u know where the door is'
i kno i have got a problem with trust because of my childhood and previous relationships but i just dnt kno wat to do anymore :( my mums going thru a hard time at the mo so its not like i can really ring her and tell her and plus i know she will just worry sick bout me even if i am 24 lol, think im gunna sit him down wen he gets bk from work and tell him i need to know the truth because i dont wanna be trying for a baby if our relationships gunna break down, it just feels like he's using the fact thatr we want a baby so much to convince me that hes telling the truth :(
thanx for ur reply hun, i usually keep things like this bottled up but its nice 2 be able 2 talk 2 sum1 :(

Hmmm he obviously rang this woman but it doesnt mean he's cheating. If he won't tell u the truth..go and see her and ask why he rang her. Otherwise this will eat away at u hun. x

hi, well i thought everything was fine wiv me and other half, we been trying for baby on and off for 3 to 4 years, iv always found it hard to trust which is why i dont know what to think, well anyway on wednesday he txt me b4 he finished work and sed im just gunna drop my work stuff off then go and c the bloke about the car(he's sposed 2 be buyin a car) and i txt him back saying oh ok then well il get ready and come with you then to take a look, i didnt get a reply back but he came back from work with his friend and sed theres been a change of plan iv got to take my friend to the hospital cuz her wrist is playing up, i didnt hav a problem with this (his friends a lesbian)that was bout 4:15 but then i tried ringin him bout 7pm til 9pm but his phone was switched off, he got bk bout half 10 and apparently his phone had been on all that time??!! 'yea right'!! he sed he went to the pub for few drinks which i was ok about, then the next day he had left 2 hours early for work saying he was gunna stop at mcdonalds on the way which i thought fair enuff, but then wen he got bk last nite i looked thru his phone i kno it was wrong of me 2 do but he has been different towards me this week, and there was a call that he had made about ten minutes after he left that day to a girl that he knows (he also knows i hav a problem withher) so i asked him why and the only explanation he could give me was that he didnt know why it was there as he hadnt rang her atall, but i had tried ringing him 10mins after that call was made and he didnt answer or txt me back, to which he said he was driving but how could that call get on his phone? his phone always locks automatically so he couldnt of rang her by accident and she had answered, sorry for the rant but i just dont know wat to believe, i love him more than life itself but all he says is that its in my head that im the one he wants and im the one he wants a baby with which he knows always gets me cuz weve been trying for so long, do you think its in my head or is he hiding sumthin, this has come completely outta the blue which is why im so confused by it please someone help, :(