He does not want to see his 9 months old daughter

Indeed,sickening. My baby's father has got his own business and I had mad thoughts of interfering in it.But the better it does the more he will have to fork out.
So I thought better.lol.
My duty is calling.lol!
Little crawling baby is awake!

I was with my partner for almost 6 years & we had planned to get pregnant but 8 weeks into my pregnancy he decided that he wasn't ready to be a father & wanted me to have a termination which i refused to do!!
We had minmial contact throughout my pregnancy & when i asked him to contribute towards our daughter's upkeep, he refused saying "that he wasn't sure that she was his" (cheeky b*****d) so i decided to take him to CSA & we had to have DNA tests done to prove paternity & he kept denying it!! When it was proved that she was his, he agreed to contribute financially but refused to see our daughter!!
She is 8 months old now & he has seen her once & that was when we met to arrange details for him to pay me but no contact since!!
Last i heard was that he'd gone back to his ex that he was cheating with while he was with me they have 2 cildren together (1 conceived while with me as she is 4yrs old
Sickening isn't it x

That's the reason why I do not use "dad". I had to cut short the amount of lies because the list is too long.
He's got 3 older daughters who love him dearly,so he obviously is not THAT bad.I want my daughter to know the truth,and to know her sisters too.(Even her younger sister)
I am not angry at his girlfriend or at his baby,only him.
I hope that CSA can give him the surprise he so rightly deserves. He's got the money,so bring on the 9 months!

He doesnt deserve the term 'Father'. Sounds like a complete waste of space to me. x

My baby's father is 48 years old. I had known him a year and had been dating him for 6 months before he got me pregnant. It was not planned,but I was extremely happy about it. I was 34, had previously had a termination and he was aware of it. When I found out and told him. His words to me were "Tell me you're getting rid of it. I don't want a child.I didn't plan to have a baby..." Then we went our ways. We met again a week later,and he asked "So, have you decided?" My answer was "I haven't changed my mind if it's what you mean" We were sitting on a bench together. He stood up and walked off. 5 months into my pregnancy he lectured me about how parents should be for a child,and that I should never have done that.That I could have taken the Morning After pill.blah,blah,blah."But I am not going to be a man who leaves his child.I am going to give money for my child ONLY for the child. I text him a week before my first scan and the 2nd one.No answer. I started work pregnant,so I lived on £117/week,then£123/week. I am yet to see the sight of his money. We bumped into each other 2 weeks before my due date,and he started calling me(late),to check on me. He "wanted" to come to the birth,but never came. He reappeared in our life from the time our daughter was born,in January, until 3 months later. I got out of him that he had a girlfriend. Then,he disappeared fully,and I suspected that he got her pregnant. Well,in fact she was already pregnant when he was trying to bed me. She gave birth in July! He asked me if we could do a paternity test one week after my sweety was born,when she is the spitting image of him. I am trying really hard to keep contact so that she has a family (4 sisters.)But, at the same time I am very angry. He has spent less than £70 on my baby and he is apparently looking after the latest addition to his brood. Yes ladies and gents,what a B******!