grieving

i'm not going to say i know how you feel but 2 weeks before seren was due a childhood friend of Rob's died in a car crash, i had know him 3 years and he was the sweetest guy. my boss is a busy body and it was the gossip de jour in the town where i work and so my bosses theory was that as he and his twin brother were young (22) they must have been drunk and speeding. in fact they had a tyre blowout and lost control, no alcohol no speeding no way it was their fault, my boss wouldn't beleive me when i tried to correct him and just kept saying that young hooligans get what they deserve and it might make these young barry boys think. he was such a nice guy and my bosses words made me feel sick, how could he be so heartless. he was the nicest person, so kind, always happy, it wasn't his time his twin Scott is still a shell and i'm in floods of tears just writing this. it will always hurt, but with time it does become easier to come to terms with. message me if you want to talk :)

This is a dreadful thing to happen I really dont know what to say and have no advice worth hearing but I wanted to say I really feel for you hun and hope you will be able to get through this xx

so sorry to hear about your friend and her child what a terrible thing to happen,you must stay strong for your baby let your feeling and emotions out dont keep them bottle up they will only wear you down, with time will become less painful but you will always remember your friend and here child,Take care * xhugsx*

Thanks for your support both of you, & yes danni it was the accident near lincoln. Just cant get my head around it here one minute and gone the next through no fault of their own, why them? i feel so mixed up, nursey furniture is going to be delivered on saturday morning & i'm ment to be going to choose some paint, but i just feel like crying all the time

OMG hun thats awful! im so sorry to hear that!

its an upsetting thing for anybody to go through, but your pregnancy hormones will prob make it soo much harder! no one will expect you to be acting as normal, so act however you feel! if your sad, have a cry! if your angry, slam some cupboard doors! your better off getting it out!

i dnt think you'll ever get over it, but it will just get easier with time. and your baby is something positive for you to look forward towards, this doesnt mean you'll forget your friend and her child. but you'll just find a way of being happy.

im so sorry your going through this hun! * HUGS *

oh hunni, i'm so sorry. give yourself time to grieve and be upset or angry. dont bottle it up. it might be coincidence but was the accident in lincoln? big hugs x

A close friend of mine and her three year old toddler died in a car accident on Tuesday night. I'm doing all i can to carrying on as normal for the sake of my unborn baby but i fell so overwelmed with grief i cant begin to tell you how sad i feel inside. How does anyone ever get over something like this i'm devastated