abit down :(

hi,maybe you will get your news on your little boys birthday what a lovely xmas prezzie but then you would have to think quickly why you arent drinking xmas day lol,i hope everyone on here gets a bfp that is trying for a baby i hate reading about people who have been trying for ages its so unfair and although i have only been trying for 4 months feels like for ever,
i thought when i stopped taking the pill i would fall just like that but my body has shocked me,now there is going to more of an age gap than i thought my daughter was 2 end of july so i give myself til next june if i havnt fell by then im going to be absolutly fuming with myself lol x

Hi, i'm new on here and thought i'd add my little bit. We already have a little boy, he will be 2 this Christmas eve and he was a suprise pregnancy. We got married in June and have been trying for another baby ever since. I know just how you all feel. That feeling that won't go away all month just wishing it would be. Then the last couple of days before your due on willing for it not to come. Then when it doesnt and you take a test and its negative, or you do come on that feeling like someones laughing in your face. GOD I HATE IT! and i HATE how people all tell you not to think about it and it will happen. Have they even tried for a day not to think about it, never mind a whole month! Good luck to all of you trying for a baby. Lets just hope we will all have some suprise news for our loved ones on Christmas day! xxxxx

also think i will do tha same aswel then use a cheapy then wait till end of week if no af get a first response one x

i know this is what i hate about it these few days go really slow luckily i work at the weekend,tonight i have a fireworks display to go to went to one last night got tons of ironing to do and im always running around after lo so i can stay busy but its always on your mind isnt it

well i think im just gna use the cheapy 1 if it says negative and still no af wed/thur i shall invest in a clear blue i think!
lookin 4ward 2 tues already! lol
although this wkend is gna go sooooo slowly xxx

hi ye ok il join the group and not test til tuesday morn what preg test are you going to be using?iv only got cheap one but might get a more expensive on as my last pregnancy didnt show up for a while x

i know how you must be feeling im on my 3/4 mnth of ttc too n i had moments where i had really strong urges for certain foods i wouldnt normally eat. i took a test knowing it was most likely negative and it was but since then all iv done is to feel over whelmed when the topic between myself and the OH is mentioned. i cry, im grumpy n very negative. im thinking of alsorts of things that could be wrong and affecting my chances. but the ladies on here are gr8 to ask n they help you calm and hold that chin up. so im guna say the same: relax, enjoy it, n feel confident with your body and things will happen before you know it. chin up sweetie. xx

Hey!
don't feel down theres 3 of us all waiting for af 'not to show' on monday so think positive, myself and victoria86 are going to hold off testing until tues morn providing af doesn't show up so maybe you would like to join us in our mass BPF morning?! haha
chin up chicken! xxx