bit of a rant

Lol flicking the v's!!! Love it. Just have a talk with him, let him go and do his thing but he's got to allow you to have a break hun. Even if its having a bath or a lie down for an hour. If you lose your rag with him it will just go in one ear out the other. Or just flick the v's like Harley does lol. xxxx

Hi girls..
I wouldn't try this just yet but I had to resort to extream measure..my eldest was 5yrs old and our daughter was a small baby..my hubby did nights so while i was awake with my dd all night so she didn't wake my son up as he had just started school and then trying to keep her quiet whilst hubby slept during the day ..then at weekends he would go out and do all the things we had done before i had the kids....I was at my wits end son developed a lactose intolerance..he had very bad stomach..wel u can imagine and dd had just started teething..
After a rather bad night he just wouldn't lift a finger to help me....so i got my coat and walked out..i left him for 7hrs...when i got back he was crying...saying how sorry he was...I am on baby no 4 and as I type he has just gone to give her some calpol as she is coming down with summat and teething..
It was just he needed to walk a mile or 7hrs at least lmao ..problem solved
He does work but he helps at home..u help make the babies then u help me take care of them xx

im in same sort of position as u! my twins r 18wks old n my son has turned 2, last month! he can b such a handful!! alil monster at times! my o/h is the same works mon to fri, then comes home n wants chill out time! wkends is where he likes 2 go off n do sumfin 2 chill out like golf or even a pint wiv his bro! which winds me up alil cuz im like erm helloooooo!!! wot abt me, u know the 1 who was preg n the 1 who had a horrid pregnancy, erm the 1 who had a c-section n delt wiv all the pain!! so my conclusion is this... there all the same really!! lol iv come 2 an agree where if he wants 2 go off n do sumfin like golf or wot eva then i expect him 2 make the effort 2 take me out or let me go off n do my thing n ave abit of me time! wot i also do which helps me is think lots of swear words in my head n smile nicely at him as he doesnt know my thoughts!! of flick the v's wen hes not lookin!! so childish but very rewardin!!! xxxx

Aww hun bless you! i SORTA know how you feel. thats how i felt after i had my baby.. im now pregnant again and im hoping i dont feel the same because i think i suffered from PND first time round just didnt want to admit to any one that i couldnt cope so id sit in the bathroom and just cry for ages! pretendin i was in the bath! Its good that you'v written it down tho.. hope it feels like a small weights been lifted. i think once ot twice a week he should come in and just take over, yeah hes been at work but like you said you havent been getting your nails and hair done all day. make sure you get you time.. even if its in a nice hot bath with a book for a hour or so! and us gurglers are always here if u need a rant xxx tc xx

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Aww hun bless you! i SORTA know how you feel. thats how i felt after i had my baby.. im now pregnant again and im hoping i dont feel the same because i think i suffered from PND first time round just didnt want to admit to any one that i couldnt cope so id sit in the bathroom and just cry for ages! pretendin i was in the bath! Its good that you'v written it down tho.. hope it feels like a small weights been lifted. i think once ot twice a week he should come in and just take over, yeah hes been at work but like you said you havent been getting your nails and hair done all day. make sure you get you time.. even if its in a nice hot bath with a book for a hour or so! and us gurglers are always here if u need a rant xxx tc xx

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hey i have a 15 month old and a 14 week old and sometimes (well i dnt no how to explaine it) but i feel like everythings become to much. my oldest has become a lil terror n dnt listen to a word i say and my youngest is teething and has colic so as you can inagine everything can become a lil bit hectic. my partner works loads and when he gets home if i ask him 2 do anything its like 'give me time to relax i jst finished work' or 'ive been at work all day im going out for abit'!!!! like ive jst been sat on my @ss all day!!! i dont no y im wrighting this i suppose i jst wanted 2 gt it off my chest. men eh.