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Hiya, I feel exactly the same every month, I was 10 days late this month just gone! i had a 39 day cycle which was a bit mad as i've never had a cycle that long. but i just tend to try and keep positive and think "this month could be the month". We've been ttc since xmas now and it does seem like it's going to take forever, but i'm sure it will happen soon. Take care, Katy x
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maybebaby
Reply maybebaby 1 years ago
Hiya....I go on holiday in July so if im not by then hopefully my holiday will do the trick... And if you would like to chat let me know and if you got messenger will give you my address :)
wannabemummy
Reply wannabemummy 1 years ago
I find that coming on here - I come on most nights and occasionally on my lunch - really helps. As nice as it is knowing people that are in exactly the same position, its so bloody annoying - especially when people have only been trying for a month or so, but obviously am happy for them. We dont go on holiday until September, cant really afford another one this year but I guess we could run away for a weekend. Everytime I block it from my mind, it comes back - especially when "trying" as I always start thinking should i lift my bum up, dont forget to put my legs up against the wall etc lol. I do enjoy it still, but things like that constantly run through my mind! But thankyou all, its nice knowing im not alone xxxx
Lynseyjg
Reply Lynseyjg 1 years ago
know how you feel hun, its absolutely gutting when you get a negative month after month. I have heard people say that by putting your body under stress to concieve, it just works against you, and only when you give in stop thinking about it and relieve all your stress ie go on holiday thats when it will happen. it sounds so patronizing how can you not think about it? i know they are right but its so difficult not to. it works for about a day.. then you see someone pregnant or a mate calls you with her great news she is pregnant! and you just think why not me? i am sure however that our time will come when weleast expect it. good luck darl x
maybebaby
Reply maybebaby 1 years ago
Hi.. Im a week from my due date and my boobs started to hurt just a couple of days after ovulation and we were hitting it bang on time, but i dont know if its because im pregnant or my body getting ready for yet another period.. Im trying to stay positive but i dont think it matters how positive you are you are still going to be really upset if you get another BFN, i know that if i come on next week i am gonna be gutted yet again. I do find that coming on here and talking to so many people in the same situation helps coz you know your not alone... :) our time will come :)
wannabemummy
Reply wannabemummy 1 years ago
Hiya.... well have had about 4 negatives so far and was 7 days overdue, until AF cam to visit this morning. And I didn't get my dates mixed up, Im just a week late. I had my hopes quite high as I was feeling sick, my boobs were absolutely killing me and I just felt like I was pregnant. Now I feel silly... How does everyone cope with the let downs month after month?
Anonymous
Reply Anonymous 1 years ago
Hiya, I feel exactly the same every month, I was 10 days late this month just gone! i had a 39 day cycle which was a bit mad as i've never had a cycle that long. but i just tend to try and keep positive and think "this month could be the month". We've been ttc since xmas now and it does seem like it's going to take forever, but i'm sure it will happen soon. Take care, Katy x
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