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can baby's heartbeat tell you the gender??

I saw someone ask this question yesterday and I wasn't sure about it.... I thought it may be an old wives tale. I just got back from my Midwife appointment and when she checked the heartbeat she said I would guess it's a boy, she said I can't be definite but based on the heartbeat I would say it's a little boy! All along I have had a feeling we are having a boy and I have found myself looking at boys things whenever we go shopping. It will be interesting to see if she's right when we have our 4d scan! Hope the cord isn't in the way like it was at the 20 week scan! Have any of you heard this from your midwife? xx
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rachel_s
Reply rachel_s 1 months ago
when i 1st listened to my baby's heartbeat it was fast like a train and my midwife said she thought it was a girl and going for my 4D scan last week showed me she was a girl but i dont think you should go on what the midwife says just from the heartbeat,i brought neutral until i knew for certain from my 4D what she woould be :)
custardfly
Reply custardfly 1 months ago
if its the faster rate is a girl and slower a boy but with my 3rd from the heart rate she should of been a boy!! people say if it sound like a train its a boy if it sound like horses its a girl again my daughter sounded like a train!!!! so maybe she will just be a tom boy!! lol xxx
emmarooly
Reply emmarooly 1 months ago
It's an old wives tale, though midwives did use it years ago as a sign apparently. Baby's heart rate will depend on what it is doing. So if it has been resting/sleeping then it's heart rate will be slower. If baby has been active then heart rate will be higher. Bit like us really, which makes sense to me! :)
monkeymoo
Reply monkeymoo 1 months ago
My midwife said at my 16 week check that it was too early to tell from the heart rate. The sonographer at 20 week scan said it was all old wives tales about heart rate, size and shape of yr bump, symptoms etc etc. I can definitely vouch for the different symptoms being a load of rubbish, I've had two completely different pregnancies and they are both boys!
katemarie84
Reply katemarie84 1 months ago
i had a little boy in 2008 and his heart beat was a galloping horse,
jane.mcc
Reply jane.mcc 1 months ago
I spoke to my consultant yesterday and she said after much research they have come to the conclusion that there is no relation between heartrate and gender.... pretty much the same as what I found on the internet and posted earlier. My friend told me her midwife said the same thing to her that the heartrate was slower so she was sure it was a boy, turned out to be a healthy girl! I think for now I will remain sceptical about it x
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Reply caroline0123456789101112131415161718192021222324252627282930313233343536373839 1 months ago
I'm glad you said that because that's not really the way I want to find out..... and when she said it I did think well my heartrate changes all of the time depending on how stressed I am or how much I have been doing physically... this must be the same for the baby I would have thought. It will be interesting to see how it turns out! x
Different midwives tell you different things. Some say if you gain a lot of weight, and you're really tired but generally even keeled, it's a boy. As where if your skin is a mess, you're very emotional but you have a neat bundle and still posess a waist (!), it's a girl? Was true for me, but nothing applies to everybody!
Whilst it isn't taught, most of the old school midwives (from the times before ultrasound scans!) used to use the heart rate to guess the sex of a child. Although it is NOT 100% certain (but NEITHER is ultrasound!) it IS true that MOST of the time, boys heart beats are slower than girls. Text books may say that the baby's heart rate should be twice the mothers, but again, that is not always true. When I had my son, despite high blood pressure and fast heart rate, my Son's was slow. With my Daughter I was perfectly calm with normal heart rate and hers was racing. Boys are often low 140's or under, whilst girls are usually above this. I don't know why it's true, but I've only ever known one person who was an exception to this rule - she was having twins, one was guessed to be a girl, one was guessed to be a boy - they were both boys, but all these years later, one is gay! Food for thought I'd say!
At the end of the day, a healthy baby - whatever the sex, is all that matters isn't it? And I still believe women's intuition is as reliable as anything else!
Strawb3rryMummy
Reply Strawb3rryMummy 1 months ago
When I went to the midwife last, she asked if I knew the gender - I replied that we found out we are having a girl and she agreed as the Foetal Heart Rate sounded like a galloping horse, whereas with boys it is meant to sound like a speeding train...
I'm not sure if this is correct and of it is why they sound different, but it's interesting, I thought.
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