worried about no sex

hi i feel exactly the same, part of me dosnt want my hubby to be at the birth in case he is put off ! but im getting really big now and its difficult to have sex but intamicy dosnt have to be just sex, some times just a cuddle and a kiss and him telling me im sexy is enough, but i have to be honest sometimes i feel so fat and ugly, i get really upsett, because its hard and just because your pregnant dosnt mean you dont have needs like non pregnant women, i would suggest being open and telling your partner how you feel, being pregnant is so hard on you physically and mentally, you need to know you can talk to someone even if its silly little things that worrie you, because if you bottle it up you will get yourself upset and stressed and most of the time its nothing to worrie about. hope this helps x if you want to talk more just send me a message - it always help to get tings off your chest :O) x
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harryjsmummy
Reply harryjsmummy 1 years ago
i am 24 weeks pregnant with my 2nd child. i went off sex completely for about a month a now my hubbys sex drive has hit the roof... and i have my bump! dont worry bout it. if your not feeling sexy maybe treat yourself to a pregnancy photoshoot. im a photographer and love making pregnant women feel sexy again in their very own maternity shoot. im gonna have one myself this time. have a look at this link... http://s186.photobucket.com/albums/x26/harryjsmummy/?action=view¤t=DSCF1158.jpg
wanabemum27
Reply wanabemum27 1 years ago
I am 9 weeks pregnant and I am getting slightly concerned that my partner wont fancy me anymore when i start to really show and wont want to have sex with me again after the birth esp if its very gruesome. Is anyone else worried about this or been through it? I just worry a lack of intamicy could push us apart..
joanne85
Reply joanne85 1 years ago
hi i feel exactly the same, part of me dosnt want my hubby to be at the birth in case he is put off ! but im getting really big now and its difficult to have sex but intamicy dosnt have to be just sex, some times just a cuddle and a kiss and him telling me im sexy is enough, but i have to be honest sometimes i feel so fat and ugly, i get really upsett, because its hard and just because your pregnant dosnt mean you dont have needs like non pregnant women, i would suggest being open and telling your partner how you feel, being pregnant is so hard on you physically and mentally, you need to know you can talk to someone even if its silly little things that worrie you, because if you bottle it up you will get yourself upset and stressed and most of the time its nothing to worrie about. hope this helps x if you want to talk more just send me a message - it always help to get tings off your chest :O) x
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