Hey, try not to let this get you down!! Me and my fella had been trying for around 5 months with no luck, all my friends around me were getting pregnant some with their 2nd child, I started to give up hope and think maybe there was a problem, or that it obviously wasn't meant to be... anyway once I stopped thinking about that all the time, and concentrating on holidays and stuff I fell pregnant, I am only 5 weeks, but I'm over the moon with joy!! I know that it is easier said than done, but try not to think about it all the time and when the time is right it will happen!! They always say if your not thinking/expecting it will happen!! Good luck XX
Hiya hun. You defo aint alone with this. It does seem like all my close friends are getting pregnant, one jus found out she having a baby on sat another due in 11 weeks. I have one as my mateys on here will know but alot went wrong and now i wana get it right except i cant even get, getting pregnant right up till now. But we are all in the same boat and it is comforting to have you all to talk too when im feeling down, in fact its more comforting than talkin to my friends who i see often. How fun would it be if we all fell pregnant the same month and had our babies at the same time. Theres me wondering off into my little fantasy land lol. Fingers crossed for us all and lots and lots of baby dust. And sex hopefully lol then again my fiance curled up on the setee next to me asleep, whilst i am sitting in a dressing gown with a little skimpy outfit on ready for bed somehow in think maybe not tonight huh lasses? Jade
Definitely not alone hun, me and my partner have been trying since jan since losing a baby in dec, that one wasnt planned and seemed so easy to conceive but now were really trying it just doesnt want to happen and it really is heartbreaking! keep reading different things "how to increase your chances" etc but nothing seems to work! i am due on this thurs and know im gonna have my period! this month im feeling down before it even happens cuz i just know im not :-( i keep thinking im haveing symptoms (keep tryng to think back how i felt last time i was pregnant with the baby i lost) but i think these symptoms are being made up in my head!
anyway keep your chin up hun! here if you wanna chat! xx
Definitely not alone hun, me and my partner have been trying since jan since losing a baby in dec, that one wasnt planned and seemed so easy to conceive but now were really trying it just doesnt want to happen and it really is heartbreaking! keep reading different things "how to increase your chances" etc but nothing seems to work! i am due on this thurs and know im gonna have my period! this month im feeling down before it even happens cuz i just know im not :-( i keep thinking im haveing symptoms (keep tryng to think back how i felt last time i was pregnant with the baby i lost) but i think these symptoms are being made up in my head!
anyway keep your chin up hun! here if you wanna chat! xx
Hi, your definately not alone. i have been trying for just short of a year now. Ive found that you have good months and bad months. for me it has gotten easier. GOOD LUCK
Aaaw flower! A BIG (gentle) HUG from me x Keep your chin up. As all your friends have said .. we are in the same boat and do understand (unlike our other halfs, who may try, but just can't!). I have everything crossed for you - I hope it will happen soon xx
Hiya hun,you know we're all here and going thro this together,i'm due on in 4 days and rather then thinking how happy i could be,all i'm thinking is how am i gonna cope with another disappionment,don't even believe it will happen anymore,just wait for my period and then cry for 2 days,blame gary and don't talk to him for another day!! It is depressing and i think i'm doing something wrong and feel like a failure as a woman! why can't i do something,that i'm built to do!
Hey there pet, I'm sorry to hear you're so down in the dumps, that was the way I was feeling a few weeks ago too, the blues come and they go with me!! I know you're probably sick of hearing this (I know because I AM sick of hearing it but it's true) but you just have to try and relax and not stress too much, easier said than done! We are all in the same boat and hopefully it will happen soon for all of us!
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