Good question! BUb seems to have very extreme examples... I used Tracey Hogg - the baby whisperer mostly. But I just kind of worked it out myself. I read the 'rules' and then did what I thought my baby needed, and was ready for. I think babies are very expressive and you need to listen to them and do the right thing for them. some need a strict routine and others you need to be more lenient with.
Have you been watching BUB? it seems to have sparked off lots of contraversy... have you used any of the methods they talk about? which ones? Or have you used something different? Gina Ford? The Baby Whisperer? Richard Ferber etc..?
Which ones and what do you think!?