im 9 and a half weeks and im exactly the same, i cant think if anything i want to do less than have sex! my partner is getting annoyed, but i just tell him to think how he would feel if his body was going thru all these changes! and still havin 2 work full time!

Thanks for that, thats great to hear! i'm sure that's exactly what my other half would love to hear too!! luckly, i think he understands but it still dont feel good to keep saying no. it doesn't help that like one of my friends went through, my mind is playing tricks and i'm going through a distrustfull period and i've never trusted anyone more than him but i want to know who he's texting/ringing all the time, where he's been if he's a bit late from work. i've never been like this with him before, he's self employed so he's always on the phone or working on. just makes things a bit worse cos i keep thinking he's going to find a bit on the side if i keep saying no! deep down i know he wouldn't but minds are a funny thing!

Hey!

It is natural to go off sex in the first trimester after all you are feeling sick alot and tired. I wasn't much interested in it myself but once I got to about 15 wks my sex drive returned, even better than it was before! My Partner and I have more sex now than before I fell pregnant (though to be fair we just moved our 20 month old into her own room so that has a lot to do with it)my hormones are running rampant and at 32 weeks am still wanting to have sex, can't get enough of it,lol So relax and it will return in time!xxx

Hello everyone, i'm nine weeks pregnant and for the last two weeks i have just completely gone off sex, it's the last thing on my mind at the moment, thing is my partner is very sexually active and i feel so bad just wanting to roll over and go to sleep at night, every night. i'm just hoping that someone can tell me that this will change soon, i know after the first 12 weeks you start feeling much better in yourself what with the sickness and tiredness, mood swings, etc. has anyone else been through this with some good news for me?! he doesn't say so but i know it's getting to him and i just want to be able to tell him that things will change soon for the better.