I am a 33yr old with a fantastic 2 year old son. I would like to start trying for another baby but when I had my son I spent the last 3 weeks of my pregnancy on bed rest in hospital and the 3 weeks prior to that on strict easy duties at home. I unfortunately gained a good 2 stone in weight and since then I have been struggling with my weight. When I had my first meeting iwth my midwives with my first pregnancy they told me then that I was border in obese so this concerns me now from a safety aspect going forward in another pregnancy.