I dont think your selfish at, its just one of those emotional things where you cant help but feel that way. I think id feel the same too.Its not easy to for get about it and relax, i really cant i am trying but its always on my mind somewhere. I think im better than last month but really dont understand how to 'relax' about it as its something your trying to do and a huge change and part of your life so im lost. Im sure it will happen for you soon you sound alot more relaxed than me. xx

hi there mummy2finley, congrats to your sister, no your not selfish at all, i know exactly how you feel, it can be really up setting and does leave you with a kind of empty feeling, well it does me, my close friend just deliverd her baby frday 14th and i was really happy for her, tho it wasnt planned all the way threw the pregnancy and didnt feel jelouse once, but even tho i havnt seen the little one yet im starting to feel sad and abit jelouse, and im wishing my turn would hurry its self up as im getting down and every time i read birth storys in the baby mags it brings a tear to my eye lol.

It does sound true dosnt it, the less your mind is on baby making and getting pregnant the better, ive alreay had my wedding so i carnt do that again lol

hello??? where is every1??
Jus though I'd let you all know, that after my msg b4 about me doing so well not thinkin about falling pregnant, well I'v just found out today the my sister is pregnant! I'm so happy for her and when she told me I was so excited, but once left on my own, I feel so jelous of her, I'm so close to tears! this will be her 3rd, but she has been trying for 2 years! and I'v only been trying 4my 2nd for 7months, so am I being selfish??? I'm really starting to beleive that we should all 4get about it, cos my sister has been planning her wedding (in september, so no drinks 4her now!!) since jan this year, so she hasnt really had a chance to think about getting pregnant, it must be true, it comes when you least expect it, or when you dont think about it so much. Sorry to waffle on! I'm gonna plan a wedding i think!! lol x x x

Hello ladies, hope all is well, I'v been tryins soo hard this month not to think about it all, and I really do think I'v done well, I'v managed to not talk about it to family or friends as much, and strangley enough, I feel less stressed!?
I'v really focused on other things like, planning our trip away next bank holiday monday and our holiday to disneyland in november, oh and not to mention my 2 1/2 year olds sons 1st day at playschool next week! :-/
of course, its always in the back of my mind, and I dnt think facebook helps! lol theres about 6 of my friends on there whos bloody preggers, i'm like the green eyed monster wheneva I see their scan pics or read about their pregnancy blues! Id give anything to have morning sickness, backache, cramp in your legs and nosebleeds if it meant I were pregnant again! ttc 7moonths this month, BUT trying not to think about it.....???? x

Its the weekend!, thats good news as I need it. Have you ovulated yet? Feeling any better today? xx

Still not ovulated, but some possible signs. Still got pains in my side and back, and to top it all off I bled a bit today- not due till at least 24th, will wait and see. Anyone got any good news?

Thats great news whitti32, I think you should buy a monitor to celebrate and take away your stress of not knowing when you ovulate. and now you know everything is ok you can relax a bit and that will defiantly help xx

Thats great news whitti32, I think you should buy a monitor to celebrate and take away your stress of not knowing when you ovulate. and now you know everything is ok you can relax a bit and that will defiantly help xx