Hi! I've just found out that my bestest friend has taken a test and got a BFP! I'm so happy for her, but am also as jealous as hell - its her first month of trying! We've been tryin for 6months now (which I know in scheme of things isn't really that long) why hasn't it happened to me yet? My friend is 31yrs and i'm 37 in a month - she's much slimmer than me too - but even so WHY WHY WHY? I'm so studpidly busy at work, hate my job, but don't want to leave as maternity benefits are so good!? I'm sure the stress isn't helping! Its awful feeling like this - i am genuinely delighted for her - but so upset for me and my hubby too! Sorry girls - needed to get that off my chest!

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littlestar
Reply littlestar 5 months ago
i've just found out a close friend of mine got pregnant within first month of trying, and we've been trying for 6 months with no sign of pregnancy, i know exactly how you feel, i cried myself to sleep when i found out, though at the same time i'm totally thrilled for them.
amybarrie
Reply amybarrie 5 months ago
hi hunni i know exactly how u fel we've been trying for what seems like a lifetime and chris's niece who is 2 years older then me has fallen pregnant within 4 months of trying! - it hurt like hell and i felt really bad for feeling so jealous!!! to top it off she concieved on our wedding day! - we were trying like rabbits - excuse the pun - to get preggers on our honeymoon but nothing!!! i understand completely how you feel hunni.
amybarrie
Reply amybarrie 5 months ago
hi hunni i know exactly how u fel we've been trying for what seems like a lifetime and chris's niece who is 2 years older then me has fallen pregnant within 4 months of trying! - it hurt like hell and i felt really bad for feeling so jealous!!! to top it off she concieved on our wedding day! - we were trying like rabbits - excuse the pun - to get preggers on our honeymoon but nothing!!! i understand completely how you feel hunni.
rainbow35
Reply rainbow35 6 months ago
Know how you feel! We lost our baby after 21 weeks in April and having come through that we have decided to try again. All of a sudden it seems everyone is pregnant and I have had a really hard time beign pleased (terrible I know but I would never let them see that). Lots of our friends are expecting around the same time, including one lady who is due the same time I was! We are hopeful things will happen soon though.

Flimosmum
Reply Flimosmum 6 months ago
Hi Toddbinns
I tried to post you something earlier- but it didn't seem to work- so I opened another page to write it down.
Hope you are ok.
Lol xxxxxxxxxxxx
wannabemummy
Reply wannabemummy 6 months ago
Toddbinns...big hugs. I found out last month that on my 6th monht of trying im not pregnant, again, and 2 not just 1 - 2!! of my friends are pregnant after 1 and 2 months of trying. Its sickening really. I cried mysel to sleep and thankfully trina was there for me or i dont know how i'd have coped. Cool out with the stress though - stress is not an environment for little babies! If maternity benefits are good its worth staying i would say, but try not to let things get on top of you. Hope your k? xxx
ToddBinns
Reply ToddBinns 6 months ago
Hi! I've just found out that my bestest friend has taken a test and got a BFP! I'm so happy for her, but am also as jealous as hell - its her first month of trying! We've been tryin for 6months now (which I know in scheme of things isn't really that long) why hasn't it happened to me yet? My friend is 31yrs and i'm 37 in a month - she's much slimmer than me too - but even so WHY WHY WHY? I'm so studpidly busy at work, hate my job, but don't want to leave as maternity benefits are so good!? I'm sure the stress isn't helping! Its awful feeling like this - i am genuinely delighted for her - but so upset for me and my hubby too! Sorry girls - needed to get that off my chest!
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