hi steph,i really wudnt worry,its a natural thing for a child to do that when theres a new arrival,i spose u cud say hes just remindin u hes still there.lol.its just a phase n unfortunatly i dnt know how long it ul last but shouldnt be too long,just make sure when ellas resting your spendin abit of time with him and just him alone.i know your bound to be tired but even if its only doing a simple jigsaw together so your not knackerin yourself out more!!!lol.try to get him involved with baby ella as much as poss like maybe he could pass you the milk like big brothers do if your not breast feeding?
good luck hun
xx

i have a 10 day old girl and a 20 month old son. my boy harry was so content until ella arrived. now he is really moany and he gets frustrated n hits himself on the head, or bangs his head on the floor or the wall or whatever ir nearby. ivetried destracting him but he starts moaning again straight away. i dont want to tell him off all the time. im starting to feel guilty. i dnt want him to think i dint love him. help !!