hey everyone i think my boyfriend is going off sex with me its been nearly a month now and we normally have a great sex life together i am really upset because i do not want him to go off me just because i am pregnant please help me what can i do to help us get back to the way we used to?
hi i dont think hes going off u,have u talked 2 him about it?he mite think he could hurt the baby but sex wen pregnant cannot hurt the baby at all. some men go off sex wen their partner is pregnant but it doesnt mean he is going off YOU. talk 2 him n find out how hes feeling. dont worry xx
Talk to him to find out why and to let him know how you’re feeling. You may be worrying unnecessarily. He may simply be busy or tired from work, and this, rather than his attraction to you, is the reason why he doesn’t seem interested in sex.
Another reason may be that learning he’s going to be a father has come as a shock and so as sex is the reason for this he’s been put off it a bit.
Many men are frightened they are going to harm an unborn child in the womb, or think that they can’t have sex with their partner when she’s pregnant. Reassure him your baby is safe and sex in pregnancy is OK unless you’ve been advised otherwise by your doctor or midwife.
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I know how you feel, we used to have a great sex life. He says its just stress through work etc thats made him lose he's desire but I know he has no problem wanking to porn, so I can't help but take it personally. It has really affected my self esteem and as a result I have hated being pregnant. Worst of all everytime he says he's not in the mood I can't help but cry, how embrassing! I have no answers I am afriad but I can tell you your not alone.
hiya, sum men are like that. freaks them out cus they know theres a baby in there lol. try talking to him and explain it wont hurt the baby and the baby wont feel a thing while u have sex. plus theres plenty of positions 2 try that wont get ur bump in the way lol. try suggesting doing it from behind so he doesnt have ur bump right in view so he doesnt think bout it. just see hwat he says might not be what iv said but worth a try . xx hope iv helped xxx
hey everyone i think my boyfriend is going off sex with me its been nearly a month now and we normally have a great sex life together i am really upset because i do not want him to go off me just because i am pregnant please help me what can i do to help us get back to the way we used to?