Well i try and 'Get in the mood' everything is fine until intercourse which most of the time hurts, My partner isn't meaning to, because he will stop the minute i tap out. It's putting me off and it's really not fair on my fiance, I feel so bad, he assures me it is ok but i really don't think it is. I dont know if it's just the time in the pregnancy but i have been reading and round about now i should have a higher sex drive. I need advice on what to do, Is it serious? Or should i just wait longer and see if this passes? (This has went on since i was 2 month pregnant, i am now near 5 month).

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megan2468
Reply megan2468 3 months ago
hey there whoever said a strap on i dont think that will solve your problems to be honest!! but if you feel it hurts and things, you could alway do a little foreplay to him and maybe when you see him getting pleasure you wont feel so worried, i hope all goes well as im sorta in the same position i just dont feel like having sex at the mo! but good look to you hun! xx
megan2468
Reply megan2468 3 months ago
hey there whoever said a star on i dont think that will solve your problems to be honest!! but if you feel it hurts and things, you could alway do a little foreplay to him and maybe when you see him getting pleasure you wont feel so worried, i hope all goes well as im sorta in the same possition i just dont feel like having sex at the mo! but good look to you hun! xx
Daffydil77
Reply Daffydil77 3 months ago
It completely normal, it's like anything else in pregnancy, its a very individual things. A lot of women have low libido during their whole pregnancy. The important thing to remember is that Intercourse is not the only form of intimacy. Even if you dont feel like foreplay, Make your you and your partner enjoy plenty of cuddles and kisses. Take time to reassure you partner that you still find his attractive. Most importantly, Relax your sex drive will return soon enough.
KimandGrace
Reply KimandGrace 3 months ago
Im 18wk pregnant and do get a higher sex drive but it hurts only wen we do it surtin ways if we do it normally its amazin as always but if we change position i start 2 get weird pains in my belly, but i had it all da way thro my first pregnancy an my daughter was perfect
monkeysmum
Reply monkeysmum 3 months ago
Well i try and 'Get in the mood' everything is fine until intercourse which most of the time hurts, My partner isn't meaning to, because he will stop the minute i tap out. It's putting me off and it's really not fair on my fiance, I feel so bad, he assures me it is ok but i really don't think it is. I dont know if it's just the time in the pregnancy but i have been reading and round about now i should have a higher sex drive. I need advice on what to do, Is it serious? Or should i just wait longer and see if this passes? (This has went on since i was 2 month pregnant, i am now near 5 month).
it is totally normal im into 7month and still waiting for that increase in sex drive i never got it in any of the other pregnancys either. if the problem is just dryness which is commen in pregnacy try using lubricant like ky jelly you sound like you have a really understanding fiancee if sex really doesnt work there are lots of other ways you can plese him but ingeneral just loads foreplay and a lubricant should do the trick
conlouise
Reply conlouise 3 months ago
Well i try and 'Get in the mood' everything is fine until intercourse which most of the time hurts, My partner isn't meaning to, because he will stop the minute i tap out. It's putting me off and it's really not fair on my fiance, I feel so bad, he assures me it is ok but i really don't think it is. I dont know if it's just the time in the pregnancy but i have been reading and round about now i should have a higher sex drive. I need advice on what to do, Is it serious? Or should i just wait longer and see if this passes? (This has went on since i was 2 month pregnant, i am now near 5 month).
well what i would recommend is that get yourself a strap on
jistme19
Reply jistme19 3 months ago
Well i try and 'Get in the mood' everything is fine until intercourse which most of the time hurts, My partner isn't meaning to, because he will stop the minute i tap out. It's putting me off and it's really not fair on my fiance, I feel so bad, he assures me it is ok but i really don't think it is. I dont know if it's just the time in the pregnancy but i have been reading and round about now i should have a higher sex drive. I need advice on what to do, Is it serious? Or should i just wait longer and see if this passes? (This has went on since i was 2 month pregnant, i am now near 5 month).
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