don't worry someone i was best friends with for years decided not to tell me she is about to pop with her first baby anyday now! found out by bumping into her parents! we last spoke when she came round to visit me about 2 months after i had my first baby (about a year ago now)and i called and text since but she never replied..is that out of order?! wot did i do?
Try not to get offended, She may not be having a hen night or maybe so caught up in everything that you've slipped her mind.
You could phone her for a friendly catch up, ask her how the wedding plans are going and maybe talk about what the boys might be getting up to on the stag night. Then make a joke about all the naughty things she might be getting up to on her hen night. you'll the find out if she's having one and if so wether your invited or not.
Even if your not invited, would it be so bad, A very old friend of mine recently got married and although we talked about her hen night, she said she'd tell me when it was but forgot about me. I wouldn't be to offended hun, at the very least it'll save you a few quid and the suffering of a hangover!
My OH is best man at a wedding soon and we're all going abroad for it. I've known bride and groom for a few years and we've had a few couple nights out, invited them to ours for dinner, that sort of thing. Nothing regular as we don't live near them. My OH is busy planning stag night and I was sort of expected to hear about the hen night but no, nothing. We're not best friends but thought we got on ok. Have asked OH but he doesn't know if she's having one and doesn't want to ask his mate as it'll sound like i'm fishing for an invite. They marry v soon. Sort of don't mind but then again seems a little strange. Would anyone else feel this way or am I expecting too much out of this?
no i think thats out of order,u should b invited! y dont u ring her n c if she mentions anything?xx
My OH is best man at a wedding soon and we're all going abroad for it. I've known bride and groom for a few years and we've had a few couple nights out, invited them to ours for dinner, that sort of thing. Nothing regular as we don't live near them. My OH is busy planning stag night and I was sort of expected to hear about the hen night but no, nothing. We're not best friends but thought we got on ok. Have asked OH but he doesn't know if she's having one and doesn't want to ask his mate as it'll sound like i'm fishing for an invite. They marry v soon. Sort of don't mind but then again seems a little strange. Would anyone else feel this way or am I expecting too much out of this?
i was in the same boat as you as good friend of ours got married last year and becos i was pregnant at the time she didnt bother inviting me and she didnt bother talking bout it to me i was very offended!
My OH is best man at a wedding soon and we're all going abroad for it. I've known bride and groom for a few years and we've had a few couple nights out, invited them to ours for dinner, that sort of thing. Nothing regular as we don't live near them. My OH is busy planning stag night and I was sort of expected to hear about the hen night but no, nothing. We're not best friends but thought we got on ok. Have asked OH but he doesn't know if she's having one and doesn't want to ask his mate as it'll sound like i'm fishing for an invite. They marry v soon. Sort of don't mind but then again seems a little strange. Would anyone else feel this way or am I expecting too much out of this?