Hey! I am not sure about your rights, your midwife will be able to put your mind at rest. Also ask your midwife about limiting the visitors at the hospital, so they dont get in when you are trying to recover. Hope all goes well, remember to keep your feet up you'll need all your energy soon enough! Good luck x

Hi im very sure that his mother has no say whatsoever about what will happen to your son when he arrives. I think you should have a word with your midwife about whats being going on if you havnt done that already im sure she will give you advice and put your mind at rest, the stress isnt good for you, in my opinion you should just try to avoid his mother as much as you can just dont talk to her and keep her out of things its none of her business full stop! I wouldnt worry about anything she has said shes a horrible person for saying such nasty things to a pregnant woman like that. If it gets really bad id contact authorities about her harrasing you. I hope you can enjoy your pregnancy i wish you all the best. x x

hi there, i just read the post i dont really no what kind of rights you have, but i think that you are his/her mum you carried him/her for 9 months they can't take custody if they have no reason, if they are just assuming you are going to be a bad mother, social services won't take it seriously because you have done anything, i hope all goes well for you, and im sure it will! try not to worry, they have no RIGHT to say that there going to take custody good luck hun xxx

Hi. Im almost 35weeks pregnant and wot can i say... the pregnancy has really been a rolercoaster! Totally drained me cos of my personel situation due to the dads mum bein a complete nutter lol. When i was just 20 weeks pregnant she told me she is gonna get a lawyer and the social involved cos i will be an 'unfit mum' and she is demanding a DNA test as soon as the little one is born (5weeks away) all of this because i didnt have the abortion she tried to force me into, (Finally got the courage to tell her to f**k off, its my decision lol). Anyway, Alot of other things have happnd since then that have made me think that me and my son will be better off without him and his mad mum in our lives. I guess i just wanna know wot the chances are of her getting my son took away from me or having any say in wot happens in his life? Me and everyone who knows me knows that i will be a good mum as i have done everything so far myself etc.. buying all his things, goin to scans, getn a home ready for him wivout any help from him or his family. Im not a drug user, alkie lol, nutter... anything like that. The reason she says i will be an unfit mum is cos i went thru a bit of depression last year so she is basically throwing that in my face. Surely that cant be enuf to brand me an 'unfit mother'? Anyway, can she force me to have a DNA test if i dont wanna? The reason i dont wanna is so there is no proof he is the dad cos i know that cud make it alot easier for her to get custody of my son. Im not putting him on the birth certificate and i will be giving him my name, not his. So... do they have any say when it comes to my son? Any advice wud be much appreciated. Thanx xx