your husband is definitely being very selfish! how can he possibly imagine you would want a sexual relationship with someone who is disrespectful and unsupportive, many women go off it during pregnancy anyway so he is being unreasonable expecting to get what he wants all the time and giving nothing back! he should also be helping you with the children you already have, and not making you wonder how you will cope with a new baby too! he needs to spend more time at home helping you. You are going to have to talk to him and tell him how you feel pointing out that if he was better behaved and more affectionate towards you you would be more inclined to give a little back too!

this sounds awful for u having kids to deal with, Im in a similar situation where my bf is useless at affection etc.. just work work work and then week ends he goew fishing, the time we do spend together is crap there is no affection or anything its like hes my brother, Im due in december my first baby and dont want to be a single mum but dont want to be in a pointless relationship either! I think I will see what happens when the baby arrives but Im not gonna make myself think that I need my partner to be able to cope, Im sure I can be a great mum and just focus on making the best life for my baby rather than being stressed about my relationship! I think ur husband sounds like he is taking u for granted! Charlie

my partner is driving me crazy, he works all week and on the weekends he goes to play rugby and often out on the beer, if i ask him to get up with the kids on a sat he rants and raves untill eventually i get up to. ive had enough!!! he treats me like dirt and can never see hes in the wrong, if i do anything on my own and hes gt to look after the kids he gives me the silent treatment when i come in. he wants sex all the time but the way he is i just cant think of anything worse. please help xxx