Make sure that he actually wants you and not just sex, I understand where ur coming from because id b exactly the same. Have u actually got back together? U need to find out where u stand with him, not just guessing because hes playing games with you. Wether hes ready to settle down or not your still having his baby and nothings gonna change that so he cant just come and go with you when he pleases. I strongly suggest u talk to him and find out whats going on, wether he does wanna get back together with you and be a proper family. If he doesnt then id be saying no commitment no sex!! I really hope u manage 2 sort things out, add me as a friend if u want 2 chat x x x

tricky one eh? it would have been nice if he was coming round to the idea and you could get used to being a couple again before the baby comes, however it is understandable that you have your reservations and maybe don't want to get hurt again! Lots of women go off sex during pregnancy anyway so that is perfectly normal- but if it doesn't feel right then you will need to question whether it is a sexual relationship you want or whether you might be better being friends, the baby will be happy if you are happy- so if he wants to be a father and be involved that's great but doesn't mean you two have to be together as a couple to provide that! have you talked to him! Do you think he would understand if you wanted to take it a little slower may be build up the trust? take some time to work out how YOU feel and don't let anyone rush you into a decision! good luck x

I split with my partner when i was 6 weeks pregnant because he didn't feel ready to settle down & have a baby!! I am now 20 weeks pregnant & over the last 2 months we have been working through things, spending time together & i think he's coming round to the idea that he's going to be a dad.. The problem is we had sex for the 1st time last night since he left me, at first i felt comfortable & at ease but as things gradually progressed into full sex (sorry tmi) i started to think is this the right thing to be doing & is this what i really want?? I still love my partner but now i don't feel that i can give him a sexual relationship after what he did to me when i told him that i was pregnant.. What should i do?? x