Trying Again After Miscarriage

Hi

I found out that i was pregnant at 6 weeks & both my husband and i were estatic as we'd been trying for 22 months.

I've just miscarried at 10 weeks and feel totally devastated. Luckily i have a very loving and understanding husband but the thought of trying again petrefies me.

Any advice? x

hello there. i had my first mc aug 2008, i was 12 weeks. i had 2 go into hos for dnc which resulted in me having my utarus punchered,i was in hospital on a drip for a week after due to infection. it was a really hard time. we now have been trying ever since and no luck yet. iv just started seeing my consultant again and she wants me to have a camera in my tubes. forgot the tec term for it. iv also just had my bloods done to see if im ovulating, dont understand them at all. she's suggested i have accupuncher as she thinks im too stressed but i just cant get babies out my head.

hi ladies well had my first af since miscarriage came 4weeks to the day what a reminder so i will start ttc,but am sure my little angel will watch over me. Babymania sorry to her of your loss its heart felt wish you all the luck keep my finger crossed but not my legs lol.Just read what greekgirl had written bout being emotional its a emotional thing that has happen to us,we need to grieve and crying is part of it i understand about the friends both of mine have just had babies i just want to be by myself even though i know its not good for me, we have to stay strong and positive so we can have our babies good luck to us x

Hi Ladies The last time i was logged on to this site i had just discovered i was pregnant, my husband & I were over the moon as we'd been trying for approx. 9 months and were beginning to worry. Sadly we had a miscarriage, this was confirmed at our 12 week scan - that was almost 5 weeks ago. I'm not sure if it's just me being over emotional but i can't pull myself together; i cry all the time, i can't work, don't want to see my good friends (2 are pregnant, 2 have just given birth). My husband has been so patient with me but i think he feels like i should be moving forward, i thought i was but got my 1st period since the mc yesterday (which is exceptionally painful!)and feel like i've taken 2 steps back again! We want to try again but i'm terrified of this happening again. We want to start our own family so badly. It's nice to hear encouraging stories of others that have gone onto have babies, so if anyone has any words of encouragement please let me hear them. I'm so sorry for all of your losses & am sprinkling some baby dust your way xxx.

hi ive just joined this group aswell and i know exactly how u feel i fell prgnant after 6 months trying and was over the moon when i found out i was expecting but unfortunatly i misscarried at just 9weeks (to twins as i later found out) and was absolutly heartbroken and it felt like ages waiting for my first cycle ihad to wait 6weeks but it felt like a lot longer i am now desperste for another baby and also feel like i lost a part of me when i lost my babies.

Hi all
I have a 2 and half year old girl who I fell pregnant with after just 3 months of trying and all went well but have had 3 miscarriages trying again. Two at just under 6 weeks and one at 9 weeks. If I fall again I wont enjoy it as I will just be worrying that it will happen all over again - but what will be will be. Good luck to you all. xx

hi my names joan first tyme writing in ths group, me and my fiance had a misscarriage oct 10th 08, i didnt get no tabs no scan no nouthing as i was 4weeks gone and the bby had already fallen frm me, i was bleedin a lot bt was told to go home wait for rest 2 fall away n jst rest for few weeks with painkillers, the worst thing was, my dad had jst passed away on the 2nd oct he got creameated on the 8th oct i lost the bby on the 10th, was told by 2 mediums it was a boy i was havin, and told my dad was holdin a pink blanket and sayin i wouild have a bby girl in my arms by oct 2010 so heres hopeing, we have been tryin for a year no luck as yet, but i took wht lookd like a heavy perid on fri 30th oct and bled frm the start but 2day on 3rd day it seems like goin away i ALWAYS take my perids when they come for a week and dnt start heavy bleedin till 3rd-5th day then it dies down not now any suggestions any1 lv joan hope every1 gets the bby /babys they deserve xxx

hi girls im 26 years old have lost 2 babies one due to miscarriage one due to a still born i had to bury my first child which was a boy and im trying again after four years of losing my little boy