I love my girls!!

I have two girls and love them to bits. We'd like to have another but I get really annoyed when people assume we're doing it to have a boy!!! I can honestly say I'm not bothered!! Does anyone have the same reaction/feel the same??
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mollysmum84
Reply mollysmum84 1 years ago
agree with you all, i honestly dont mind what sex the baby im carrying is, i already have a girl and people do say,...oh wont it be nice if you have a boy!!
i honestly have no preference, every child is a blessing and you love them regardless.
which is why i dont want to find out the sex, it'll be what it'll be, and it WILL be wonderfull!
love to everyone xxx
millsroobs
Reply millsroobs 1 years ago
Thanks to all your replys. We have said we'd like one more maybe two but whatever we have we'll be happy and will not keep on trying til we have a boy. It would be nice for my other half to have a boy to carry on the family name but he's not bothered either. Though he is rather overwhelmed at having two Daddy's girls, they don;t leave him alone!!! lol
elainecook
Reply elainecook 1 years ago
I had 2 boys when I was pregnant with my 3rd. People assumed that I was trying again so that I could have a girl. We found out it was another boy at my 20 week scan. We were over the moon. We told the grandparents and the mother-in-law said (expectedly) "Oh what a shame!". I was so annoyed. She said the same thing when I had my second boy. Now my little one is 1 year old I keep getting asked if I am going to try again so that I have a girl. I do not and they find this strange. I love my boys to bits and wouldn't have it any other way. Even the dog's a boy.
emms1981
Reply emms1981 1 years ago
when i was pregnant the first time my nan - who has always liked girls more than boys asked what i wanted and i just said well I spose a girl would be nice but all I really wanted was a healthy baby, well I had a boy and I was very happy, I loved him from the moment I saw him and my nan said- oh didnt get the girl u wanted then, this really hurt my feelings. Im expecting another baby and I would be quite happy with either because im very close to my son i think its true what they say about mums and sons but i will be honest if I had another boy I think a part of me would like to try again one day for a girl but this doesnt mean i would love a boy any less.
Kelly2508
Reply Kelly2508 1 years ago
When i had my 3rd Daughter people asked me constantly if I wanted a boy! I purposly used to say I wanted a girl because it would be easier for bedroom sharing and clothes that I still had from the other two.
When I had my 3rd Daughter all I had was people asking if I was disapointed she was not a HE! esecially when they used to start with a pitying Ohhh before asking me! I think it is so rude to ask that, there is still a big stigma in this country about not having a boy or people looking at you as though girls are a consolation prize.

My 4th child was a boy and then all I got was, "you finally got your boy then" like I was only having kids to get the boy! I have just had my 5th child who was a boy too. I love all of my children equally and would do if they were all girls or all boys!

Ignore them and just tell them that it doesn't matter what it is
lisaDavies7
Reply lisaDavies7 1 years ago
hi hun,i have 6 children 4 girls an 2 boys and am expecting our 7th baby end ov may,beginning ov june.i dont know the sex yet but 2 be honest im not bothered as long as he/she is healthy.i have had the same thing,u want a boy dont you?thats why ur havin another.GGRRRR.i get so annoyed,how dare ppl tell me MY reasons for havin another baby.stuff all of them hun,u cant controll nature unless u have a designer baby.i have my own veiws on messin with nature,its dicing with the babys life,well rant over.lol.only you know ur true reasons 4 havin another baby,weather it is in hope ov a little boy its ur choice.hope u get what u truely wish for hun.xxxxxxx
millsroobs
Reply millsroobs 1 years ago
I have two girls and love them to bits. We'd like to have another but I get really annoyed when people assume we're doing it to have a boy!!! I can honestly say I'm not bothered!! Does anyone have the same reaction/feel the same??
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