By kitaa2010
3 months ago
AF arrived this afternoon :/ so here's to it being our month in march! Fingers crossed! We deserve our baby. Xxx
By kitaa2010
3 months ago
Well I've woke up with stronger period pains :( I really don't want it to arrive. I just want my baby. As the months go on im just losing hope :( I know its going to arrive soon it's day 30 now :/ I'm not having a good day tbh just feeling so emotional. We have everything right at the moment. we have our own house both bring in wages now all we need is our baby. Everyone in our families keep saying 'when are you to going to have a little one then' "saying come on we want another grandchild" it's drives me crazy they have no idea. I wish I could tell them but it would be more stress if others knew :/ I so hope it happens soon!! I want a little baby with my oh more than anything! Xxx
By kitaa2010
3 months ago
hey hun it's been 31days today when i started my last AF i have very very sore boobs have little pain's in my tummy got headaches keep getting a sick feeling and i have been TTC for 5 years like u me and OH have been having prob's so bad in fact that we didn't really talk for 2 week's things are getting back to norm i'm sorry to hear about ur m/c have u been to the doc and see if they can help i have been taking folic acid and OH been taking zinc as that is ment to help with the sperm maybe try taking that have fun while BD i wish u all the luck and baby dust in the world xx
Hey chick. It's been 29 days today since my last af and around 4 weeks before but before them they were around every 6 weeks. Yeah I keep getting mid period pains every so often but I'm not feeling positive I think my af is going to turn up soon. The time I was ovulating was the week we spent apart :/ aww sorry to hear about you and oh but glad you are working things out now. Me and oh are working things out now were great ATM :D I'm having test done ATM they've taken blood and I have to keep having blood taken at different times. I was taking folic acid but I've stopped a few months ago i just gave up on ttc :/ yes oh is going to start taking zinc and see if that helps and im going to get some more folic axis and start taking them again :) Im sending you lots of baby dust hun I really hope you get your little angel soon :) lots of love xxx
By donna0300
3 months ago
hey hun it's been 31days today when i started my last AF i have very very sore boobs have little pain's in my tummy got headaches keep getting a sick feeling and i have been TTC for 5 years like u me and OH have been having prob's so bad in fact that we didn't really talk for 2 week's things are getting back to norm i'm sorry to hear about ur m/c have u been to the doc and see if they can help i have been taking folic acid and OH been taking zinc as that is ment to help with the sperm maybe try taking that have fun while BD i wish u all the luck and baby dust in the world xx
By kitaa2010
3 months ago
Well it's 4 weeks today since my last AF and before then was about 4 weeks so I think theyre becoming more regular now :) which is good for ovulating :) well this is the third day with mild tummy pains so fingers crossed! Xx
By kitaa2010
3 months ago
Hiya hun, first of all you are not a b**tch, it is perfectly normal and yes it is because you're jealous like the rest of us, and so we should be as it's the most precious gift of all that we all want to hurry up and come our way! We've been ttc for 4 yrs, 2 mc's and still nothing so you can imagine I've done the emotional rollercoaster a few times and back again but hang in there hun, you can move through it. This may help or it may not but we were advised by doc not to do it any more than every 3 days cause sperm doesn't have chance to reproduce to a good enough quality; I agree with others don't do when you think you're ovulating do it regularly and when you feel like it cause it can put added stress on you and OH and cause friction that way. I think cutting out smoking/drinking etc can help but then look at all those that get pg doing that and much more so I say everything in moderation, if I'd done that I wouldn't have have had a drink for 4 yrs! You have to be able to enjoy life at the same time as ttc and then hopefully in moderation you can relax whilst being sensible and get your BFP. I wish you the very best of luck hun xx
Aww bless you honey yeah I've had 3 mcs :( I just want my little baby now.. We just do it when we want like tbh every 3 days wouldn't be enough for us lol we sometimes have it more than once a day once a day or every other day and on odd occasions every 2-3 days.. I've just got to the point now where I think it doesn't matter what I do how I do it and how often.. It will just happen when it happens! Then part of me wants to carry on with everything that everyone advises me. It's so frustrating :( xxx
By theresahealy
3 months ago
I am getting so fed up now!!! Everyone around me are even pregnant or pregnant! My sister when she's not even with her OH. Someone at work who has 6 with different dads has just had a baby. On my fb 3 people have recently annoyed they're expecting and 5 are pregnant and but a status or a photo on about it every day!! I'm turning into a B#tch because I'm getting jealous. I've tried it all.. Doing it when im ovulate, Not trying as such, having it every day, having it every one to two days. Tried lying with my legs in the air, never going on top just always trying positions that help and nothing.. It's our 6th month of trying again now. It's been a year since my last miscarriage :( sorry girls I just needed a rant!! Xxxx
Hiya hun, first of all you are not a b**tch, it is perfectly normal and yes it is because you're jealous like the rest of us, and so we should be as it's the most precious gift of all that we all want to hurry up and come our way! We've been ttc for 4 yrs, 2 mc's and still nothing so you can imagine I've done the emotional rollercoaster a few times and back again but hang in there hun, you can move through it. This may help or it may not but we were advised by doc not to do it any more than every 3 days cause sperm doesn't have chance to reproduce to a good enough quality; I agree with others don't do when you think you're ovulating do it regularly and when you feel like it cause it can put added stress on you and OH and cause friction that way. I think cutting out smoking/drinking etc can help but then look at all those that get pg doing that and much more so I say everything in moderation, if I'd done that I wouldn't have have had a drink for 4 yrs! You have to be able to enjoy life at the same time as ttc and then hopefully in moderation you can relax whilst being sensible and get your BFP. I wish you the very best of luck hun xx
By kitaa2010
3 months ago
Hi, I know how you feel.It took my partner and I 22 months to conceive. I became obsessive during my 2ww symptom spotting etc. The best thing I ever did was to go to my doctor who put the wheels in motion to have a ovulation test and womb and ovary scan. I got the all clear for both, but I think the relief of it being investigated helped me relax and that combined with a having holiday in summer and not overly thinking about conceiving all the time, helped me get my long awaited BFP (after my af believe it or not!)I am now 32 weeks pregnant. So, stick to the fight when you're hardest hit, its when things seems worse that you must not quit! On similar lines my colleague's daughter had also been trying for over a year, her sister got pregnant within a month of coming off the pill, needless to say she was feeling hopeless, well low and behold she's now pregnant with identical twins due in July!
Aww they're lovely stories makes you want to feel more positive when you hear of stories like that. Well yesterday my breasts started to feel a bit sensitive and still are today so I'm thinking maybe it's my af coming :/ but I really hope not! But im not feeling confident about this month xx
By happy feet
3 months ago
Hi, I know how you feel.It took my partner and I 22 months to conceive. I became obsessive during my 2ww symptom spotting etc. The best thing I ever did was to go to my doctor who put the wheels in motion to have a ovulation test and womb and ovary scan. I got the all clear for both, but I think the relief of it being investigated helped me relax and that combined with a having holiday in summer and not overly thinking about conceiving all the time, helped me get my long awaited BFP (after my af believe it or not!)I am now 32 weeks pregnant. So, stick to the fight when you're hardest hit, its when things seems worse that you must not quit! On similar lines my colleague's daughter had also been trying for over a year, her sister got pregnant within a month of coming off the pill, needless to say she was feeling hopeless, well low and behold she's now pregnant with identical twins due in July!
By kitaa2010
3 months ago
bd every 2-3 days and invest in a clearblue fertility monitor - cheaper on amazon! Best invention ever..
Cut down on booze, eat healthily and try and relax!
Cut down on booze, eat healthily and try and relax!
So does having sex more than 2-3 days making the chances less? Yeah we never drink unless we go out an the occasion weekend but very rare!
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