It's all about how Dad's seem to be only the 'donkeys' after the birth. How do you deal with doing everything from working throughout the day to coming home to an exhausted (and sometimes none-too-happy) wife and screaming baby? Sick of the "sleepless" jokes? Self-employed and frustrated? Trying to keep everyone else happy and suffering yourself? Not able to find answers when you need them? Ignored by health care workers? Simply need to vent ... here you go!